D D Same shit... Different day

 Woke with some sciatic pain and couldn't fall back to sleep at 3 a.m.
Made a HOT cup of coffee and sat at my laptop .
The WB came around seven and he was giving Jill the same old shit. DO NOT EVER go into the VWF again or I'm gone. Welll that ain't happening. Just because he is banned because he gave Jill some shit in the some time back and called the barmaid a fucking cunt when she intervened...Jill should not go in there too.  Like I said, ain't happening.   She said to me after he left " do you think it could be about me always watching you be controlled that I won't let anyone control me anymore?          Yepper!
Then he told her that when he gives her THAT RING ( engagement ring) if she refuses it, THEY ARE DONE!    Heard lots of merry effin Christmas Jill's and how many guys have asked you to marry them this month or as many times as I have.   YOU DO NOTHING FOR ME! You don't wash my clothes, clean my house...no you rather do it all HERE.  I get nothing out of this relationship. I work every day ;YOU DON'T.
blah,blah,blah...BLAH,BLAH.
    Then I GET shit from hubby it seems from the minute he wakes. sighhhhhhhhhhh
My doctor told asked me yesterday if my getting upset...WORKS.  ???    Nooooooooooooo
She tells me that I am going to do what needs to be done anyway, so just tell him just a few minutes before I rise or take myself away from what I am doing.  blah,,,,blah...BLAH
Firast thing she did was take my B/P.  Then she starts asking question. My mood, my anxiety level, depressed, sleep pattern and within minutes she could see for herself that my B/P had risen and she took it again. BINGO!  
Don't let things bother you...blah,blah,blah. Sounded good in theory. sighhhhhhhhhhh
     My son Randy gave Tracie a hard time and was downright mean mouthed to her while I was at the doctors yesterday One of the things he called her was a motherless cunt. . I spoke to him about it awhile ago when I was in a calmer mood. He went BALLISTIC.
Still was P O'd that I chose her for Thanksgiving instead of my son. Threatened that once that room was done, he was GONE. I TOLD HIM "GOOD". You are not telling me who i can have in my house EVER and I will hire someone.  He got nasty.  I kept my head after he gave me both fingers. I shit you not!
Told him his temper is what always gets him in trouble. 
Hubby asked me where his old boots were that he use to work in.  Now comeonnnnnnn. he hasn't worked in over 25 years. Soooooooooooo I'm thinking he wants some boots that come up over his ankles to stabilize his ankles and purchased a 10 and  101/2 last night for him to try on.
All I got was shit from him from the minute I took them out of the box today. His old work boots has zippers on the sides. ???????????????????????????  What boot that laces up has zippers I asked. Mine did, he yells and so it began.  No insullation inside. Showed me the sheepskin in the shoes he wears I found on Carol Wright's . Insisted his work boots had the same stuff inside and so it went. On and on and ON. The efffin boots are going back to the store.  OH YEAH, keep calm Pat.
Last night Jill cooked a ham and he commented then that he could enjoy a fried ham and mustard sandwich today.  I made it, brought it in to him and the next thing I knew, he is doing things unrelated to eating or anything in particular.    Soooooo I remind him his sandwich is sitting there. "Now it's probably cold", he said.    Which ....set me off.  I'd like to have someone efffin waiting on me....blah,blah,blah.
One of those days that I should have stayed in bed.....like I could? 
   Gil had his four wisdom teeth removed this morning .  You know what he is going through....Hell!
As he left the door he said, " bye nana,see you in the next world.' When he came back through the door at ten thirty, I told him "welcome back to HELL." ;0)
Jill got a call from her son Ryan around ten thirty when she came back from the oral surgeons with Gil. Mom can you do us a big favor. Sarah and I have had no rest since we got home. They had called the ? the woman that comes to show you how to nurse or tells you what the baby might need. Like a formula until mom's milk comes in good.  They needed toilet paper and other food products. Jill and Logan have gone to watch Gavin while they get a few hours sleep. I'm thinking, how did I do it?  Seven kids in seven years and eleven months, ( no multiples.) Nursed them all.  She was happy to do it for them. :0)
   It's three fifteen and she called and asked me if I would go and get Gil a frappe. One mile from my door to the ice cream place.  While I'm NOT TICKLED PINK, I will do it. 
Tracie should be here soon and I don't want her to have no one to intervene if Randy starts in on her.
      As I am sitting here, I hear Randy giving John some shit about the efff ups he has done in the room today. That's a nice, warm, cozy feeling. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Caulking..I keep hearing the word, caulking. They are putting the baseboard down.

Tracie has arrived. It's almsot four. Randy offered to go for the frappes. Well...shut my mouth! and HIS.

It's ten p.m.  Tracie is about to leave....I hope.
Did a little shopping in one store. Then we went to eat. Talked to Jill. She had cooked supper for the new parents while they took their showers and Logan held the baby Much to his delight.).  Gil was here to keep an eye out on hubby. The WB was here when I got home and left a half hour later ( silently.) No good nights as he passed by the kitchen table.   While I was out tonight I picked him up a thermal top and bottom and some gloves. It's my usual gift to him along with M and M peanuts and it's getting Down to The Wire.
 I don't think...I KNOW that he will be here Christmas. 
Bought Alex some crafts and 3 nice outfits.  Had intended to give them for her even if he wasn't in the PICTURE.
Chiropractors, visiting nurse and Chrys will be here to cut our hair tomorrow.  Oh... and wash that gray right out of my hair ....too.;0)
Another busy day.......tick,tick,tick.
Randy gave me a hug and kiss goodbye when I left. Of all my sons he is the most affectionate. He's also the BIGGEST PAIN IN MY ASS.  I shit you not!

That's All Folks!