D D Been going non-STOP

since I posted.
It's now ten a.m. If you remember...I set hubby up with his first cup of coffee and he spilled it between his legs. Asked him when I removed the tops sheet and blanket if it went through and got " how could it with the pad under me" from him. Well folks...let me tell you how it could. When he got up to shower (AFTER ) I began to wash that bedding, I noticed the pad was all scrunched up and there was a huge dried up coffee stain on the bottom sheet ( which meant the padded mattress cover under the sheet also was stained with coffee. NEXT LOAD!
Before I stripped the bed he began to argue with me that he did not clunk me on the head...he cluncked his head on his head board cabinet. HUH?????????? Let me tell you how you did it...I began.  Then I just said to myself
Self......don't even bother putting up the pictures cause HE JUST WON'T GET IT or ADMIT HE WAS WRONG.    I began to fill his med box for the week and out of the blue,  he yells at me that Tracie and I made a racket and woke the fucking house up when we came home last night. THAT.... IS WHEN I DREW THE LINE. I shit you not !
Tracie never came in the house.   She kept the motor running and made sure I got inside and drove off.  Gil was sitting in the parlor with the tv off when I came in and all he said to me was," I'm going to bed."
AT first I tried to put it nicely and told him he was going bonkers. THEN when he kept insisting that it was Tracie and I yelling to each other ....I asked him if he was looking for a fucking argument and told him he was a fucking liar. He still insisted ...but changed it to I must have been yelling out the door to her. NOT!
With that...I said, " You want to be woken up all night long? I can arrange to put you in a nursing home."
Shut him the fuck up. I shit you not! He had me so nerved up, I was shaking.
WTF!  There was no call for this!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Filled his damned med box and then had to get online and order 6 refills. Two others, I still have to call the V.A. and get new scripts for.
      Jill heard the commotion and came out of her room to ask me what the hell went down.
At 7:15 she woke for the first time and as she walked to the door she muttered, " did I leave the door unlocked" more to herself than to me.Picked up her purse and shoes. After the baby came she lucked out. He was still sleeping ,so she took him into her bedroom to grab more zzzzzzzzzzz's.

Hubby showered and I didn't get his shorts to him fast enough. I was using the pinking shears to make him another pair.....He's pissed all the others. Anyway...he asked if anyone was here and came out ballicky bare assed.  Need to take those trusty pinking shears to more of his old pj bottoms and buy new light pj's. Couldn't get him to wear shorts before. Now he claims he can pull them down faster when he gets the urge to pee. WHAT EVER! Somehow he still manages to piss the others. ;0) 
Time to throw one load of laundry in the dryer and start the next load. Time to throw in the towel....My break is over. BBL

Wanda...thank you for your comment. Some days I can be a "hoot" in the p.m. too. ;0)

It's going on six p.m.  Managed somehow  to nod off ...to and from Boston. The baby did, so as I was in the back seat with him...I must have caught what he had. ;0)
Phone call to come for appointment to have probe put up hubby's butt and something else in his penis ( can't remember the term ) and the pressure??? is gauged/measured???    I think I got lost as soon as the doctor described the probe going up his ass.  ACTUALLY I was laughing so hard to myself that I missed some of what he said.  ;0)  He recommended cathing him every night before bed to make my life easier. MY PLEASURE!  :0)  I'm really not THIS MEAN...I'm "slap happy" from not getting enough sleep. Yawnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Just heard Jill say more or less to herself as she passed by me, "I'm going to bed early", The W.B. and Gil came back from working and he is still here....probably looking for a MEAL cause they didn't get paid today.


Saturday.
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh  he did get his fireman paycheck and they did go eat and came right back. He was suppose to work his regular shift today and took 12 hours off to do the side job work and is going in from 8 p.m. to 8 a.m.  instead of working a 24 hour shift.
Me,myself and I....went to the grocery store after dark last night. Well...it wasn't dark when I left, BUT...... and taking two of the turns one left and one right ...it was hard to judge what side of the road I was on.  :0( Two out of 3 isn't bad....is it ? ???????????  Come on...cut me some slack ;0)
Made hubby and I cheese burgers on the G.Foreman grille last night. On mine I put a slice of low fat cheese. To die for! :0)  Screw the POINTS .....it was THAT GOOD. I shit you not!
In the same shopping strip as the grocery store is a Jo Ann Fabrics and I have been wanting to crochet a mindless pattern ( baby throw/blanket ) for a car carrier. Every time I see Gavin's I get the urge to create. Two rows to remember....over and over, plus a border. His was a baby shower gift.....from ???
The ? in me wants to be different and use 2 strands instead of one. His is 6 rows of blue and 6 rows of white , repeated. Mine will be yellow and white held together and the border will be white.

shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yeah I know I have plenty of yarn to make this project somewhere in this house ( crawl space attic most likely ), BUT climbing up those drop down stairs is becoming a pain in the arse at my age. :0( sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh If PUSH CAME TO SHOVE, I'd do it, but why bother. ;0)  Wish we had a Michael's close.  There is one in the plaza with Kohls, but do I get my urges to create when I go to Kohls almost weekly. Heck NO !

Apparently the W.B. didn't catch wind of Jill going out by herself the other night. He was too calm yesterday.

My kitchen counter is piled with veggies. Green beans, carrots,zuchinni, 2 bags of green peppers, butternut squash. No room in the fridge. Jill asked me if I thought fresh veggies were ONLY going to be sold...once a week. ;0) ;0) What my plan is......is to cook some of that up and put it in a container to munch on during the day and also for a side dish with my meals to fill me up.  As for the lack of room in the fridge...where there is a will...there is a way. ;0) SO...the 2lb. bag of carrots has been set over to another counter and a pan large enough to cook them in is on the stove......................AS a reminder of where I plan to start.  Next I'll place a peeler beside the carrot bag. ;0) Last time I cooked the carrots, I got distracted in blogland.....and burned them. :0(  Burned them BAD. sighhhhhhhhhhh The PAN was a B to get clean. I shit you not!  Soooooooooooooo until I can give the carrots my undivided attention, they will sit where they are !!!

4:10 p.m.  It's been an exhausting day.  Between my son Randy, my DIL Kim and son Jay and my nephew Drew and his ? ( help me out there...what is the partner called when they marry?)
Should have asked the source while they were here. Too many conversations at the same time and too many interruptions for son Randy as he was installing my old PC that he sent out and had repaired ( I repaid him) I got sooooooooooooooo many lectures from him about letting other people use my PC's. and how they screw my PC up . He wasn't caring who was hearing him and I know that it made people uncomfortable. DIL Kim finally told my oldest son Jay...NOT TO USE IT!     Well...if it is in the parlor and it is available to use.....I don't give a flying fig if someone uses it.  NOT that I want them to screw it up.....but shit happens.   
  I'm still in my pj's.  Was ironing before they came
before one. Before that Van...hubby's friend stopped in for a few hours to chat at his bedside.
No sooner was the house empty ( Jill and Gil went to work catering an Elks Installation for 246 ) and the phone rang. Tracie.   I'm FINALLY getting through to her .She called to ask if I wanted to go out. :0) Not tonight was my answer.
DIL Kim brought me a loaf of banana bread that she made this morning. Cut into it as soon as she left and cut hubby a slice and cut ONE FOR MYSELF. It was yummy.  Nephew's partner made me chocolate peanutbutter fudge. He's the cook in the family.  So far it hasn't tempted me. Key word....so far. ;0)
After I post I'm going back to the ironing board.  Wanna join moi....thought not. Before I sat here I dialed hubby's sis Peg and they are chatting away as I type.  Hubby yelled out to me to ask if there was gambling on that boat. I yelled back YUP and then I got up to get my camera and show him my Royal Flush. It was then that I let him know that I spent it too. :0)  He may be a SOB in every other arena, but he has never made me account for any money that has come into this house. UNLIKE my poor mother who worked full time and had to turn her entire paycheck over to my dad. 
Hubby only kept $20 out of his paycheck........DANG if this was NOW, I'd have to double that with the economy as it is. ;0)  Horrors!
Sounds like his sister Peg unlike his sister Ann....wants to get off the phone. Heard him tell her that the call is not costing him as we have that service where you can call anywhere in the states including the calls I make to AK to my girlfriend.  Speaking of whom....I owe her a call. That's not quite right...I always am the one that calls her as she does not have the service that I have. Works for me. I shit you not!
Thinking I have talked myself out of doing more ironing. Now that everyone has gone and my insides have quieted down....I'm tired.  I'm a morning person and as the day goes on I fade.
Hoping you all have a wonderful Easter.  Daughter Cheryl invited us to eat at her husband Dana's workplace with them at 3:30 . In past years we have had all very good meals there. Depends on how hubby feels.  (((hugs)))
FUCK ME! Tracie is here. Brought my birthday present and is asking if I want a sub from where she is going for her evening meal.  I GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's All Folks!

D D Speaking of Cinderella

You lost your shoes and purse honey!

....and...this is what forced me out of bed at 3:15 a.m. He hit my head and INSISTED that it was I that was on his side of the bed.  WTF!

It got worst! Upon hearing him get up to pee at 5:10 a.m. I checked to see if there was now a place for my head to lie down.  Check THIS OUT! :0(

HE must think I'm still away on vacation. Ya think????

Wasn't worth the effort to argue him awake at 3:15 a.m. and isn't now. BUT, I HAVE PICTURES!

Will walk him through them...later today UP ON THE TV SCREEN where he can see them. ;0)


SO! When I left with Tracie, ( I succumbed ;0) to going out to the 99's to eat with her ), Jill said she was JUST going out for cigarettes and maybe....ONE DRINK and maybe find someone that can financially support her. .  We both left at the same time. Oh did I mention that the W.B. had words with her again about not getting a meal out of her AGAIN last night ( she reminded him that she has cooked him at least a hundred a year ) and NO she wasn't cooking and he stormed out again after swearing his head off. One of the workers was still here working on the parlor side door.  AND...he has the nerve/gall to tell me that I am the cause of her stress !!!!! Yeah, right!
Tracie and I passed the W.B's vehicle parked at the Moose Hall...GOING and COMING. So much for him being broke and needing a Free Meal.  Her car wasn't there....oh yeah, she did say she wouldn't be stopping for a drink where he might be, ;0)
At ten, I left her a message on her cell phone telling her that she knew I would be worried about her drinking and driving. APPARENTLY she didn't listen to her voice messages cause I have no idea when she came in. IF she didn't find Mr.Right, I hope she has a friggin hangover. Occasionly, I hear her talking in her sleep and sometimes she sounds aggitated. Must have been a hell of a night!
IF she went to the VFW......ALL LOSERS...no hope of her finding Mr.Right there.
Wondering how THIS can be good for her B/P.???  If you think I'm going to tattle to her/OUR primary doctor....YOU'RE DAMNED RIGHT. I shit you not!
Gavin will be here in another hour and a half. It's now 6:30 a.m.  She... like his parents can't figure out how to care for the baby and get any work done....her during the week days and them at night or on the weekends. She is going there Sunday to watch the baby while they apartment clean. HUH!!!  It leaves moi with my mouth hanging open. Seven kids in 7 years and 11 months. WTF! 
Two in CLOTH diapers and one on the bottle and one being breat fed.
No sympathy here. This is mind boggling to me.  I shit you not !!!


I'm on my second cup of coffee. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
I'm living The Life Of Riley! My nose is growing too. ;0)

Been paying bills and found another I missed this morning. I've forgot birthdays. Know I missed or are about to miss DIL Sally's . Even though I always don't get one...I still feel bad. What's.... WITH THAT?  I need to lighten up and just make a call...THE DAY OF. I'll keep telling myself that. ;0)
Ones...never too old to change. One's never to old to change. One's never to old to change. ;0)

Ya know what??????????? I'm tired. I shit you not!

Ya know what I did yesterday? I ordered some cute, poseable effin monkeys. How's THIS for cuteness?
#1

and to come

Five inches of CUTENESS!
Now tell me...am I soft or what! ;0)

6:25a.m. Hubby is stirring again. He must have heard the keyboard typing out how I was spending his money. ;0)
Maybe my kids will send me to Eternity with these things all in my casket.
How my mother spent our inheritance............. :0)

Hubby is awake and sitting up asking for his coffee. As I predicted...he claimed he wasn't on my side of the bed. WE KNOW BETTER, don't we. ;0)
 Cup #1 for him delivered and cup #3 for me ...coming right up.  Looked for his urinal to empty. He's using it as he sits up in bed. Taking...one longgggggggg pee. Couldn't see it under the covers. Something needs to be done about this pissing....LIKE TODAY.

Can't wait to hear how Jill's night went.  Then again..........................
If the W.B. caught wind of her being out....( those WINNERS are always tattling ) there will be more shit tossed at her today)....and I will be the lucky recipient of hearing it ALL!

Lousy TV night. Maybe I'll stay home. How's that for Ass Backwards?
Think I'll post early and read some of your posts during the day between breaks of moving things from Point A to Point B and getting nowhere fast. Keeps me out of the stores and out of trouble. ;0)
Oh............ and that urology appointment at 2 around an hour away if I WAS doing the driving. IF, is the keyword here!
 Monday I have my right arm checkup. Still not at one hundred percent, but I can live with it. No time for P.T.  IF I was guaranteed it would get me to 100% , I might make time the for it.
No guarantee. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh   I'm from Missouri...the SHOW ME STATE on this one. ;0)
(((hugs)))to all
Hubby just spilled his almost full coffee cup between his legs and was hollering for a towel to sop it up. ????  Wish granted! ;0)  Just changed the sheets yesterday. :0( It's 7 a.m. Leaving the shoes and purse where they dropped for " baby mama"  to see.  Hubby has thrown the wet bedding off him and is requesting a blanket cause he's cold.  Let THE FUN BEGIN!

That's All Folks!

D D Cinderella has traded in her glass slippers

and is wearing rubber gloves. ;0) I have more work on my hands than I do time.;0)  I shit you not!
I just keep plugging away in  s l o w  motion.
At this momnet in time,I want to apologize to my fellow bloggers for not keeping up with what is going on in their lives.  I'm feeling "over-whelmed " trying to get back into the hang of things. Sounds "loopey"....I know.  Is this what is termed as "Jet Lag?"

Called Tracie last night around 6:30 after I fed hubby and asked her if she wanted to go eat and then hit Walmart. She did. ;0)  When I left her last night I told her I did not want to go out today and I would call her the next time I did. Added ....save your minutes so that I can call you.  She told me all the shit that hubby gave her while I was away and wanted to know what she has done to make him behave the way he did.
I told her nothing, but he has told me that you are here every day and he is sick of it.
Okay....I admit it, so am I , BUT we will keep that between us.;0)

Tomorrow Jill. Gavin, hubby and myself will head into the V.A. in Boston to the urology department to keep hubby's appointment and hopefully get some answers to what we can do about this constant pissing problem. Jill does that highway driving. :0)

It's only 4:45 p.m. and I'm pooooooooooooooped. 
The workers are leaving for the day. New slider in my room is fully installed and the new side door out to the pool is in too. I love these new sliders with the blinds on the inside between the glass.  Must have been a woman that thought of THAT! ;0) 
Soooooo now I can lie down on my bed and nod off.  Without further adieu.....(((hugs)))
Never happened. The WB and Gil came in from working a construction job. WB expected Jill to cook a home cooked meal. It didn't happened and he stormed out after giving her a piece of his mind.
.For the umpteeth time he threatened that he will never take her out to eat again and she told him it was fine with her cause she'd find someone that would.  Too funny! :0)
Holy F...guess who's here.

That's All Folks!

D D Some needed R and R

....and I'll be back.  Not to mention the unpacking, but I'm mentally overwhelmed.
Logan went from not wanting to go to his dads last week to staying there the entire school week and going to school from there. I AM PISSED!  Dad bought him some old boat and the draw there is to...work on HIS boat. No thought of course to a 13 year old can't operate a motor boat.  THIS is his dad's way of grooming him to go live with him. The four years he lived out of state were THE BEST Years since their divorce. NOW the shit begins all over again.   School work will suffer. NO RULES there. The SIL from HELL is cunning. I shit you not!
Jill knew I was none too happy about this arrangement when I saw an empty bed before school time.
Told her I could speed this up  if I tell his school he is living with his dad during the school week and get on with my life. I've made THIS HOME HIS HOME so that he could benefit....but I'm not keeping this house if he is going to be living with dad.  The W.B. told me that I am tearing her apart.  This was said when she stepped outside for a cigarette. Told him as far as I was concerned she could live with him. If I didn't see all this shit I wouldn't know  any of it. PERIOD!

The house...still isn't finished on the outside. Almost...is what I hear from son Randy. Workers will be here &;30 a.m FIRM tomorrow.  ..I forgot to ask son Randy today where the hell the screen is for the new slider and where the hell the gutters were/are. Tearing out the old sliding door made a mess of the inside wall of my bedroom.  Don't worry, I hear. It will get fixed. That's what I have heard about a half dozen. Hell No DOZEN THINGS  I'm still waiting on. :0(
THIS is the son with the ADD, DDS, DDT's and every other friggin DX that came down the Pike since he was 2 years old.  Like...I'm expecting Miracles??????????????????????  Yeah.......I am.

Got into Manchester at one a.m. Had an hour delay leaving Tampa. Smooth flight. . Climbed into bed at 2:30 and hubby woke. Don't know when I passed out, but I was awake and up by 6 a.m.  Have plugged away .....making a little dent in settling back in. Luggage is almost empty.

Lastly, Jill cashed one of hubby's checks ( as she does very week ) and LOST the entire check along with the envelope it was in. Put it in the side of her car door ...knows not how it fell out....has been sick over it.  Folks....that's a nice sum someone found. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Tomorrow should be a better day.....................hopefully. Heard that nephew Drew is coming here with his elderly lab Samantha on Saturday. Her vet is here in our town where he lived til recently. The dog has been sick. sighhhhh
I may be jumping the gun....but I  have a suspicion he will need the money for the vet bill. Oh welllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll.........................Yeah, I'll give him it. (((hugs)))


That's All Folks!

D D I'm #51 on the Totem Pole so to speak ;0)

Waited to one second past the time I could check in ......I'm like....how did that happen. DIL Deb told me people pay extra to board first.  Ah ha! I'm on that flight.....one way or another. ;0) 
Told my son what's going on with my nephew. Drew is my dead brother Ronnie' sons, aka Scott Marlow, aka Ronald Scott.  . His mother died at age 22. If the state hadn't of taken custody of him before she died unexpectedly from a tumor that was pushing her eye out of the socket...he'd have died of neglect. My mother was made of the same stock as I am. Orr is that,,,I'm made of the same stock she was.;0) Flew from CA to Maryland to get him from a foster home and become his legal guardian. My brother was in THE PEN ( Soledad at that time, I believe, Chino...one of them any way. he made all kinds of promises that once out he's raise his son. DIDN'T HAPPEN. Was either in trouble with the law again or chasing women. I AM VERY SURE that once all four of my mother's  children were out of the house RAISING another child was not what she expected to be doing. My sister adopted two of her grands at birth ...one was 13 when my sister Nancy passed away and the other was seven,   I also am sure that I would have done the same if the situation arose. :0) 

 THINGS are not  Kosher here. THIS HOUSE is not what my DIL wanted. She wanted to buy ...on water and she still has her mind set on it.  Life's a BEACH ...the pull over shirt I'm wearing today....SAYS SO! ;0)

Asked my son if he'd take me to St.Armands Circle today. It's a GO!. :0) Lots of specialty shops there. Even one with cheap BLING! ;0) It's right on the ocean. Bay/inter-coastal???

My flight has been delayed 40 minutes...so far. Subject to change...just like everything else.  Was 9:10 p.m. that I went up in the air. NOW...it's UP IN THE AIR! ;0)
My large suitcase is packed solid. I worked up a sweat getting it closed. If the airlines opens it to check it .....good luck to them getting the shit back in.

Went to watch my grandson LJ lob a basket of golf balls at a driving range while my son and I enjoyed the cool breeze and shade just feet away and PIZZA. It was DIL Deb's suggestion this morning  that he take him out for awhile. He's down in the dumps. NOT ONLY about trying to break into the radiation ( xray ) field , but last Friday he found out his temp license expired in Feb. and he has been calling here there and everywhere to get his license.  Yesterday he called someone in the position of FL State radiology licenses 5 times. No reply back to his messages. sighhhh
He finally got a job...did not get enough on the job training and then they find out he has no license. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh  Which means....NO WORK and how long will they hold this job open for him. ??????   See.....everyone has PROBLEMS. I shit you not!

Back home...a nap....and I open my email. Lookee what I saw/read.


Dear Aunt Pat. I gather that you will be on your way home this evcening. wanted to tell you not to have that talk with Uncle Mike just yet. Patrick got a temp job beginning April 11th for 2 months, so we will be alright for another 2 months. Will be stopping by this coming saturday arouns 1 and will talk then. Love,Drew.
I have a REPRIEVE! OMG! I feel like the weight of the world has been taken off my shoulders....for now.

Back from St.Armands Circle and Lido Beach. Plane leaves another five minutes later now. (9:55)
Going to post a few pics I took the last few days and go pack the last of my stuff into the carry on case and......pray it closes. 
See you all in Ma tomorrow. :0)  (((hugs)))
All this space ...one huge open area . Eat your heart out Pat.

Jetty over at Nakomis Beach area

The hot tub here

The newly added firepit area out back

cookout anyone?

That's All Folks!

 

D D I can put on "a good face " while I'm here

Tomorrow night I leave for home and what awaits me with my nephew.

This time down here...I didn't get to see my brother. ( My only living sibling. ) :0(
Yeah....I know he's up in Jacksonville....a four hour drive. It's the excuse my SIL Judy gave me that I am fuzzy on. One of her sisters that lives in TX has been touch and go for the past six months and not expected to live. The same sister and brother in law that were down on their luck some years back and they invited them to stay with them and her sister showed her appreciation by screwing my brother. The same sister that she didn't speak to for ages after that as her heart was broken.  ???????????? Yeah...I know, blood is thicker than water. The OLD ME probably would have done the same thing.
:0(  We do what we do ....because???  WE JUST DO!
Last year it was for financial reasons that they couldn't come and my son and DIL made them welcome to spend the weekend here, so I offered to give them a few hundred for gas, etc.. I was HAPPY TO....what the hay.  We do what we do because.....we are family. I do love them. We had a great visit and I was sad to see them leave for home.  Since then there have been a few hints that they need a new roof on their double wide and I'm sure they do. They bought it new more than 20 years ago. SIL's mom passed and left her money a few years back and what did they do with the money? Certainly not replace their roof or save it. :0(
I've ignored the hints. Can't ignore the desperation in my nephew who will soon be homeless and hubby never could stand him...even as a child. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh We do have that 5th wheel trailer sitting in the yard ( he's begging to stay in) chock a block full of shit that kept getting shoved in there since hubby couldn't get up into it any more. The fridge in there quit working. Our bathroom gets tied up plenty as it is ...... Drew is not easy to love nor like :0(  ( my parent's ruined him.) His mate Pat is a very likeable guy. They married May 31st just days after Gay Marriage became legal in Massachusetts. Soooooooooooooooo they would come as a "pair." Like WTF can I do??? I'm not keen myself on having more people under foot and having to cross my legs before I piss myself longer than I already have to,. sighhhhhhhhhh
I am sooooooooooooooooooo torn. 
They both have "Aids" and Drew hasn't worked in years due to his health. Pat lost his GREAT job some years back and has been working when he can through Temp Agencies at a fraction of the wages he once earned. NOW he is so behind in the field he was in...he takes any job. Last year they lost their house. NOW they can't afford to even keep the apartment with his (Pat's) sparotic work.
Folks....this isn't going to be pretty with hubby.  I shit you not!
If he was going to divorce me ten years back when I rescued the pomeranian Lady because HE DIDN'T WANT ANOTHER DOG cause we already had one!!! 

Almost since I've been here in FL I've been crying on the inside. I've put on a good face since I've been here. Tomorrow night I fly home ....dreading every mile of the flight and what lies ahead.
Haven't even shared the "good news " of winning that thousand with hubby,Jill,Randy,Cheryl.
My heart has been too heavy.
Is something wrong with me!  I find trouble without even looking for it! sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Looks to me like all I've done is whine, complain and AIR THE DIRTY LAUNDRY!  
I'm going to have to try to figure this out by myself .  Can tell you right from the git go that Jill isn't going to be on my side. She does like Pat very much, but she will feel it's an intrusion on her living conditions .It would be...BUT!
If her son Ryan, his wife Sarah and grand baby Gavin needed a roof over their heads she'd be on it like "flys on shit!"
Okay enough of my woes. We all have em! This is the way I LOOK AT IT!

orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr IS IT!

(((hugs)))

That's All Folks!

D D No April Fool's joke. Visions of " Sugar Plums "

dancing in my head...woke me at 4 a.m. ;0)
We have NOTHING LIKE The Big Red Barn in my area. :0(  Is this something that is to ONLY BE ENJOYED in the SOUTH??????  COME ON UP to Boston!
Dang place closes at 4:30 p.m.  orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr I'd STILL BE THERE! ;0)
DIL Deb went to one of her good friends pub/eatery last night and sent a text to my son that I would have enjoyed myself there if I went with her. It was Karoke Night andddddddddd her friend's b day so she picked up a cake for her. I know I would have.......BUT, I'm looking at it this way, my legs instead of my lungs got some excercize.  :0)  Always.....the thinker!
Do all intersections with lights have a count down of the minutes that are left to make it across the street before the light turns red?  Ain't that something?  How awesome is that! It was a wide intersection.....maybe that's the reasoning behind it. Maybe.

REMINDER TO SELF: When traveling away from home and your Kuerig....PACK coffee bags. I like my coffee when I WAKE UP..... and this morning I thought I'd make a cup before my son woke. Oh.... he has his bedroom tv on "the cat's away" so to speak. ;0), but he dozes off and on through programs he has recorded.  Deb stayed at her place in North Port with her recently divorced friend last night and another one that is divorced and looking for a place to rent/buy??? in Sarasota . I say "her place" cause she bought it with her inheritance from her dad who passed awaytwo/ three Aprils ago? Jim was in his 60's. Just didn't take care of himself like he should have or he might still be around. Nice guy....loved to hit the golf courses both here and in MA and spent from October to May in St.Petersburg. Then...he was a neighbor ...same Zip Code. Walking distance.
My son remodeled and painted it to her liking, my DIL furnished it l o v e l y ....right down to the littlest detail and she is now bored with it and wants to sell and get something else do redo. That's the over achiever in her. ;0) I'd be ahppy as a "pig in shit" to call this HOME and I think you would too.
I've shown pictures of it last year....this year there are even more changes. The laundry room is even gorgeous and is bigger than my damned bathroom. I shit you not!

As I sit here this morning,  I am mentally packing my suitcases ..... ;0) The biggest question on my mind is....Can I fit MORE???? When Docker capris are just $12.98 and other name brands are marked wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy down.....what's a woman to do! FLORIDA is going to miss me...I shit you not!
Think....I'll go play with my luggage for awhile. :0) BBL

Phewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww....it's going to be tough, BUT where there is a will...there is a way!

Called home. Hubby took a fall in the bathroom getting out of the tub with HIS FOOT BRACE ON. You read that right....he showered with it and claimed to Jill that he always showers with it on. NOT! She knew that....and that's why he fell getting out of the shower. .  He had showed confusion earlier and she had kept sending him back to our room to lie down. She also noticed that he was disoriented and weak and had to help him all THREE TIMES. . Gil nad herself could not get him up from where he was wedged between the tub and toilet, so she cvalled Glenn ( her age ) from across the street and between Gil and Glenn they got him up onto the toilet and brought his wheelchair in to him to transport him back to bed. No obvious injuries. :0)  The velcro still isn't dry on his foot brace. ( one day later ):0(


It's been a long day. Took a drive with my son around 4p.m. to a water area that I;ve forgot the name of. I'll remember by tomorrow when I post a few pics. Afterwards we went to eat. Came home to grands visitng and a great grand at 7p.m.. Sonny and I skipped the mac and cheese dinner DIL Deb made when she came back from North Port after we had left. . The house cleared out at nine...kids enjoyed the pool and hot tub. ;0)....here I sit  glassy eyed. I shit you not! . Going to call it a night and try to watch the Country Music Awards.
(((hugs)))

That's All Folks!