I AM WOMAN! Hear me ROAR! February 2012

I  AM WOMAN! Hear me ROAR!  February 2012
WARNING !! Not for those with a short attention span. ; 0 )

Saturday, August 06, 2011

D D Ut O Spaghettio's !!!!

Took the clunker to visit hubby. Put $20 worth of gas in it as it was on EMPTY! 
Fiest stop after gas was to get hubby a small Steak Bomb as lunch at the Rehab was a DUD :0(
Went to Walmart after visiting and got the instructions for the new electric shaver I bought him the other day.
The Braun only has ONE HEAD to clean and his Norelco has 3 small round heads and he has a  hard time getting them cleaned and back in where they belong as of late. Next stop was Kohls for a return and a few doors away is Michael's where I made a return also.
THEN I DECIDED TO GET ON THE HIGHWAY...............one exit away from home the car DIED. I shit you not!
Right behind me was my neighbor across the street and he stopped and took me home. :0) Guess I had some luck.
Where ....I called AAA and they brought my car home.  Motor seized up I was told.
SHIT! SHIT ! SHIT!  Now I have to let my daughter know and her son who has been driving it. :0( 
I'll wait until tomorrow. No sense ruining their day up in Maine.  Tomorrow in the P.M. will be good enough.  I shit you not!
I feel like shit!   It had a new windshield put in it yesterday and POOF!
I shoulda stayed in bed today..............

That's All Folks!

Friday, August 05, 2011

D D Another day in the Funny Farm

Already this morning W.B. is here and it isn't even time for him to be off duty. It's 7:40 and his shift is from 8 a.m. one day to 8 a.m. the next.
Pleading with her to use his car to take to ME to the fair in Cheshire that she will be working a concession stand for son in law Joe.  Her car is IFFY to make that 4 1/2 hour drive each way.
Heard him say " all you ever do is ignore me." DUH! GET THE MESSAGE!!!!
Now I hear " I'm not having a meltdown" followed by "oh for gods sake" and sighs as he left her room. I'm sure he didn't go far. Didn't hear the door close.
Yep... hear his voice again. She just got off the phone with her son Gil telling him what he needed to bring as he is working this fair with her.
Thought he just left. Heard the door close. NOPE. He's back in.  Guess he has more to say. :0( 
The door opening and shutting must have woken Michelle as she just came out of Logan's bedroom .  Used the bathroom and now she is in mine. Asked to use my robe as she isn't dressed appropriately she said.
Meaning ....around a man other than her husband or other family member.
She gave a LOOK ( rolled her eyes ) and let out a sigh as she entered my room.

Cash and Scamp are racing through the house and Ginger isn't happy with them. She is staying close to me and letting out a bark and charging them when they get too close.  
WHY OH WHY DON'T I SPEAK UP TO W.B.
Is it because I too fear him and would rather end things peacefully. ?????
To be truthful...I deserve these upsets if I allow them. I shit you not!
I could speak up and end his coming to my house if I had any gumption at all.  sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

This FAIR my daughter and grandson are working best be the last FAIR that's a distance away.
She was promised the use of a company vehicle to travel to and from with and it has ended up as...NONE ARE AVAILABLE. Every vehicle is being used for a function. She and Gil could have worked a function locally, BUT No ONE ELSE WANTED TO TRAVEL ALMOST 5 hours and work a dusty fair grounds and sleep in a cheap motel after midnight.  Nothing against carny people but that's what Joe expected them to do ( sleep in the back of the box truck and use the shower everyone else uses at the fairgrounds.) He and his nephew did it last year.  Michelle told him her sister WAS NOT!
I will have her car to use and pray I don't have problems with it, but that's beside the point. Wear and tear on mine!!!!!!

Jill took off to go to the center to gather up supplies ....W.B. invited himself to ride along with her...Michelle is making numerous calls regarding her catering business ( Waitresses needed, supplies, etc. and the supplies her nephew needs to restock for that concession stand at the Fair that he has been operating the past week. This Fair runs 10 days I believe and he has his Class Reunion Saturday evening he needs/WANTS to go to.
Thusly... Jill and Gilby will relieve him and his girlfriend. I just overheard that his girlfriend Renee will be working the Sunday wedding locally.  Jill will not be happy hearing that.  I shit you not!


GRAND CENTRAL.....COMEDY CENTRAL!!!!

Fried macaroni and cheese balls anyone?????????  

Visited hubby with Michelle for a few hours last night. It was close to supper when we got there. He had no P.T. in the P.M. I thought Medicare insisted on a certain amount of hours of P.T. a day.
He was complaining of leg pain and I asked as I was leaving when he last had Oxycodone. 
8 a.m. I WAS TOLD. WTF!!!!   Just because he asks for his med for his leg pain they ONLY give him Gabapentin 600 mil's. 
He can't remember the word Oxycodone and just says leg pain med when he asks for something for the pain in his legs. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Already this morning at 9 when I called him he was in pain. He had asked twice for someone to shut the A/C off as that cold air blowing on him increased his pain.  I had him push his buzzer while I was on the phone and finally someone came. He asked her to turn the A/C off as it was killing his legs. I heard her say questioningly " the A/C does?"  Yes he told her. Heard her say " I'll turn it down" and he said in a loud voice " I want it off.. Get me a nurse."  With that she said she would turn it off. Then he asked for pain med.
I told him I would call him back in a short time and hung up. I did call back within 15 minutes and someone was there in his room and had just given him a bunch of his meds in a cup and I told him to ask if the pain med was in there and she said it was.  ( Seems to me they should tell him exactly what he is taking before he takes it and I will bring that up with the social worker. ) Then he asked for another blanket and she did bring him one and he thanked her.   What can't they get through their head???? He has very little circulation in his legs from the nerve damage due to the arachnoid cysts that grew in his spinal cord T3, T4 area I think and damaged  the nerves going down to his legs. .  Now I'm questioning myself...did I say pain med to him or Oxycodone.    OMG!!!!!  I can't remember what he repeated to the nurse.
   Ten fourty Jill and Gilby take off for the long drive up past/around  Bangor,ME and before they leave...my Randy comes. Then he and I had confusion on things he returned and monies he owed me . I couldn't see the Store Credit Card for the insullation we lost the store slip for. He said it was Orange.  He searches where we were and it is sitting face down on my computer table with the money. Front side is ORANGE and the back of it that I was looking at was WHITE. He tells me he is soooooooooooo confused getting all this straightened out and I asked him how he thinks I feel day after day WITH CONFUSION!!!!
That's mainly why I haven't knitted.  Trying to remember what row I was on and the sticthes I was doing has been MY HANG UP.  I shit you not!

OMG!!! Now I've been on the phone with my son in Florida. This attorney that he and I have been dealing with to get what is RIGHTFULLY OWED US has now refused any communication with us by phone or email UNLESS we get Power Of Attorney with Durable Provisions.   WTF!!!!!   At this time ....I am waiting for a phone call from our old attorney to find out how much he will charge us for this.
Never a dull moment. I shit you not!

That's All Folks!

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Thursday, August 04, 2011

D D A new use

for the PLAYPEN!!! Scamp and Cash use my bed for a wrestling ring in the morning. ;0)

Jill and Michelle stopped to eat after they went to Michelle's doctor appointment and visited hubby. Then they came home as I asked to keep an eye on the house.
Cheryl left at 5 and Randy shortly after I came back to the house at 6 to get some things to take to hubby.
I spent a good two hours in Kohls and didn't even realize the time.  So much on sale and so much to look at.
Call me FOOLISH, but I bought two Docker skorts in a size 12 at the price of $14 each for next year.
After the meal I ate at the Chinese Buffet tonight ....I have my doubts that I will fit into them then. :0(
Ate my oatmeal breakfast with cut up strawberries and didn't eat again until 6:30 p.m.   That's BAD!
The crab rangoon was soooooooooo good.  How good was it?  When I step on my scale I'll let you know. :0(  NAY or YAY!!!

Yep....the W.B. came back many times and finally caught her home and she didn't send him on his way.
Must ask her why. I've told her many times she is playing with fire and she has admitted that she fears him at times, sooooooooooooooooooooo WTF??? 

It's morning.      NAY!  I shit you not!

Alot of in general pains in the asses today.
Jill took Michelle for her P.T. and ran to the bank and for groceries while she waited. 
Randy came and finished up some painting in the shed and purhcased  ( with my money of course ) four sections of fencing for that area behind the house and shed 
Now he is painting them with a seal coating. For the life of me I don't know why I am spending the money to repair and improve things here. My best guest is it keeps Randy busy and out of trouble. There's a mood to my MADNESS!  We had years and year and years of crap ( to my thinking anyway ) in that shed. Hubby will probably blow a gasket asking where HIS CRAP is.  Not that he will ever use it. sigh!
It's the FACT that I let someone do away with his CRAP.

Tried to make a call about one of his RX bills and their computer is down. :0(

Overheard Jill and Michelle talking this morning. Why's that, I asked?  She had told Michelle she didn't get into her bed until 4 a.m.  Long story short the W.B. went into her room while she and Michelle were talking and fell asleep.  She stayed on the couch . He woke her at 4 and told her to come to bed and she told him that she has told him she is NOT sleeping with him. Told him he didn't GO HOME like she asked him to and he was being disrespecttful of her wishes. Okay,I'll go home , he said sullenly and he did.
She also told me that she told him he is NEVER to go to my bedroom door again if
she doesn't open her door or the front door to him.

Thought I would stop in a few stores after I visited hubby this P.M.  Michelle asked just now to go visit her dad with me.  She definately isn't up to prolonged walking or sitting. 

My garden is doing AWFUL. Only a few tomatoes and the plants look so unhealthy. 
The weeds around the pond have taken over. Last year I had such a nice garden and flowering weed free pond area.  That's what NEGLECT does for you. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

This morning I took the Bull by the Horns and picked up the knitting neededles and yarn to begin a baby sweater for great grand # 12 . It's been months since I have touched yarn. Had no desire and lacked confidance in being able to follow a pattern ( which I know is assine ). 
Reading my own scribbling is a whole other BALLGAME. :0)   

It's almost 3.  Michelle is ready to go and Tracie's nose will probably get out of joint when she finds me gone, but I want to get back and relax tonight knitting or whatever moves me to do.

That's All Folks!

Wednesday, August 03, 2011

D D Do you ever feel

SHIT ON some days??????
The Political Party from the TOP down!

a n d then you get more SHIT from your loving families. 

Jill made herself scarse pretty much up until close to eleven last night. I'm sure her excuse was she was trying to avoid W.B. whom was back and forth all day. Once she left with my car to take Michelle to her own house on the other side of town to do Payroll (she got LOST waiting for Michelle to call her to come pick her up.) Some of that time was spent at a BAR ...VFW to be exact. Surprised? Me neither!!!
Tracie took me to see hubby for an hour around 5:30.  We were having a good T Storm at that time and YES I wouldn't have driven on my own during that storm, but the fact is MY CAR SHOULD HAVE BEEN IN MY DRIVEWAY. 
Made calls to Jill during the next few hours. Michelle had changed plans and would have her daughter Theresa drive her back to my house where we would sing H.B. and eat cake.  Someone needed to be here to let them in. I had just sat down to eat a salad at Good Tymes and began calling Jill. No answer at home or her cell. Left messages. She called me back and told me she was not doing anything wrong and would be there to unlock the door. I know for sure I used the word added STRESS that she was putting on me more than a few times. sigh! 
I had ordered a Garden Salad and chicken and rice soup for my meal. Tracie ordered an iceberg lettuce wedge with dressing as one of her sides and spareribs and rice pilaf as her meal. The waitress asked if we wanted the salad and wedge first and we said "yes."  We ate that and then her meal came Piping Hot and so did my soup..ICE COLD. I shit you not!  By this time I was so worked up watching the clock as at 8:30 ( Tracie and I had made a few stops after we left the nursing home. She needed to run into Walmart and take her B/P and into Michaels for a return. I did go in there with her and buy yarn. Blue yarns. Plenty up in my attic, but I'm not climbing up there. I shit you not!
I would have Michelle, Theresa, Thersa's beau, her sister Kathleen and her 3 children there at my house and also her husband Joe for the cutting of the cake. The kids were going to swim awhile first.
I was on the phone with Jill telling me she would go home and unlock the door when the waitress came back to our table and as I had already told Tracie I did not want the soup NOW ( not even if they nuked it) she told the waitress . She just left it there and walked away.  I never got the bread I asked for to go with my soup either. Oh well. Nor asked if I wanted a refill on my diet soda. Oh well. 
Was pulling in the driveway as Michelle called me to say the kids were getting anxious to cut the cake and eat. NO JILL HERE. I asked about her. Went to buy cigarettes I was told.   Tick, tick, tick.
They left and I called her. Her excuse was she didn't want to be around her drama sister Kathleen who is so much like my hubby's ex ( her mother.)  Big whooptie do !!! 
   OMG! My Cheryl just came.   Didn't expect her today. Using the pool. Came on gas fumes. :0(  Needed to get away from her kids and house.  WTF!  Yak Yak Yak YAKITY,YAK!!!

Sooooooooo I was saying....last night after everyone left except for Michelle...I was wondering OUT LOUD if Jill had gone to Raleigh,N.C. for those cigarettes. Called her again.  Now I could hear the background noise and her slurred words.  Just around the corner, don't worry, I'll be fine, your car will be fine....the whole gambit! Not trying to be disrespectful of you ma.
Famous last words I told her. Then I proceeded to remind her about Tracie's brother Marty that was in that very same place and got drunk and got in a ONE CAR ACCIDENT just blocks away from his house around the corner from me.  Of course...OF COURSE... OF COURSE ...NOT HER!
When she did come home I could hear her and Michelle talking until I fell asleep.

Stayed in bed this morning . In the back of my mind I was thinking to myself that I was going to lay there and see if W.B. still came in my bedroom door and I NEEDED THE SLEEP TOO.
I heard him knocking at her bedroom door.  Didn't look at the clock, but I suspect it was around 8.
My door was opened around 6:30 for the dogs to get out to pee and I left it like that. Layed there and listened after 8 until 8:30 when I rose to pee and make my coffee.
My measurer wasn't in the coffee bag so as I went for a tablespoon I was visable to my bedroom sliding glass door and I hear ,"Pat". Turned to look in the direction the voice came from and there stood the W.B. outside still asking me if Jill was awake. Told him "no" and turned to go back to my coffee maker. Within seconds Jill got up to go wake Michelle for her 10:15 doctors appointment and I told her he was just here.
She said if he had have stepped inside my door she would have torn him a new asshole. hmmmmmm maybe.
He had left after I told him she wasn't up, but I'm sure he was lurking from the time her got off of work ( worked half a day INSTEAD of his full 24 hour shift cause his house was being auctioned off ) he told me yesterday. Like...HE didn't have to be there . Oh well, his business.
Jill made Michelle regular coffee and the two of them took off to see her surgeon to see if things are healing as they should be and they asked if they could go to the nursing home after to see dad , which was okay by me.  It was after they left that W.B. came back ( changed out of his uniform ) and asked where she was. My car was gone....Dead Giveaway.  Told him only about the doctor appointment ONLY and she will be pissed that I even told him that. Oh welllllllllllllllll.

Ring....Nursing Home calling. We need to set up a Family Meeting.   This is a regular thing.
I say about time. he has been there a week. Now I need to see what is good for myself, Jill and Michelle. They were just mentioning THAT this morning.  IN FACT they may be there at the nursing home and mentioned it to other staff and that may be the reason for this call.  
He said to me last night, " Ma I'll never get well if I am in this place. They don't take good care of me."
He has never said that about another rehab ( been in two others ). Begs for his pain med , his butt is sore and finally someone put a skin barrier cream we have there on it.  I checked him out when I was there and the residue was still there and I put more on him.
FOURTEEN more days and he is OUT of there.
I wouldn't let an animal suffer in my care and while hubby hasn't been the nicest person to me or has been a perfect human being in more ways than one.... I could not in all good concience let this be a PayBack.  IT"S NOT ME OR IN ME. I shit you not!
I want the Home P.T. to come and if I take him home earlier than the 20 days Medicare pays for I don't know if that will conclude his P.T.

Cher brought her radio/CD player and is excercizing out there. Took a few pictures on the sly , but haven't downloaded them. Just did the ones of that flowering hibiscus of Tracie's that I am bringing back to life in my yard. Also of Randy's head wound after he wiped up the blood and the dogs cash and Scamp playing on my bed this morning.  Scamp is at the front door crying for his mother as I type. Off and on he goes to the front door and does that. He has Seperation Anxiety. :0) 
Now my Randy came .....lots more work to do on that shed.  Shelving to be put up. I'm going to fill that shed so damned full even Charlie's leg room will be cramped. ;0) As long as his litter box and bedding box fits in there THAT'S ALL I CARE ABOUT !
NO ROOM AT THE INN FOR HUMANS. I shit you not!
Such beauty

Came from THIS

I have thoroughly enjoyed this plants beauty for well over four years when Clara got it as a Mother's Day gift from her son Lonnie. She has been dead over two years now. It loved that picture window she had it in front of and my side of the street doesn't get that sunlight in the front of my house. :0( It's in my back yard til the cold weather comes and then?????? 
My Randy....IT BLED like head wounds do. I shit you not!

The Birthday Girl Theresa
Dad Joe,Michelle and her boyfriend ? Been told his name at least 3 times and haven't retained it yet. DUH!
Watching her blow out the candles
The rest of us stood on the other side of the table.

Clutter everywhere and that's another thing I told Jill on the phone. She could at least run a vacuum and sweep every day.  My spirits sag looking at this house, I told her. 

Cheryl began to get into it with me about Jill when she first came.  I agreed with her that she is not the same person that she grew up with, BUT I also set her straight AGAIN on it was Ryan's choice, NOT HERS that she not be a guest at his wedding.   I heard it all again..never did anything to him, was there at the hospital when he was born, not my fault I have been busy with my own family to not have been as much involved with his life.
HELP ME was all I was thinking . Kept on typing and finally she got the message . I think

Sooooooooooo that brings me to NOW/ It's 12:20. Must shower and get ready to go with Tracie at 1 p.m. to make exchanges at Kohls while she has blood drawn at Lahey down the road. Kidney stones they keep a check on?  She is suppose to have the surgery to remove them and puts it off. When i asked why last night she said, "because it's like I have nothing else to do" in an agitated voice. Meaning her apartment flood, her eviction notice and trying to get that straightened out with their attorney, etc. etc., BUT this needed surgery goes way past that.  She has had the surgery before. It comes with her medical condition.
I could do this on my own during the day, but she saw the bag of retuens and asked to be the one to take me there and it would kill two birds with one stone ( so to speak.)

I AM NOT going to proof read this.  Time is running out.  I shit you not!


That's All Folks!

Tuesday, August 02, 2011

D D 10:30 p.m. phone calls

CAN  NOT BE GOOD!!!! I shit you not!
Nursing home called to tell me that hubby FELL.
Suffered a small cut behind his ear ( unknown what he cut it on ) and from how much I was able to understand his male Jamaican??? nurse that's what I could grasp. Soooooooooooooooooooo Tracie was still sitting here ( taking up space ) and there must have been a reason for it....I asked her to drive me there to check him out.  Inch long cut behind his left ear, but didn't require stitches. Guess I'll have to take their word for it as it was bandaged and I couldn't see it. He used his urinal and then lost his legs and went to the floor. 
   Talked to him this morning and he sounded okay. Last night there was some confusion. He heard people talking in the parlor.  When I questioned that he told me off and on he can hear people talking in the ( he used parlor and livingroom ) ( both words ). Told him it was a hallway and nurses and aides walk by talking.
Sooooooooooooooooooooooo WHAT NEXT????

Again yesterday Jill and W.B. went round and round on their relationship. He won't accept that she don't love him. Soooooooo WHAT'S NEW!!!
Off he would go and damned if he wouldn't come back.
She drove Michelle to her house to get more clothes and other things she needed, then went for subs for the 4 of us. Myself, Tracie,Michelle and her. Had just eaten the sub and was in my pj's for the night when I got THAT CALL.
This morning W.B. came around 9:30 and did some more pleading. House is being auctioned off today.  He leaves...he comes back.  So much for him asking what he can do for her and her telling him all he could do for her was leave her alone. 

Today is grand daughter Theresa's 20th birthday. Michelle ordered her a red velvet cake from the bakery and her half sis and her 3 kids will be over tonight for cake and to sing Happy Birthday and swim. Michelle's pool is GREEN.  No one has been home to take care of it.  

Cash got very ill from the drops the vet RX'd him for the skin disease he inherited from his mother. I ordered Promeris online as it's the only other med  that can be used for this and our vet doesn't carry it. So much for the expensive drops.  I read online that this salve smells like HELL. Wonderful, JUST WONDERFUL!!!
   Randy just arrived and the damned dogs are barking their heads off. :0(
Still lots of work to do on the shed and other repair work.
Why the Hell I'm bothering to have him repair and fix things up is beyond me. I shit you not!
Maybe it's because he needs the monies I hand him every so often which is a drop in the bucket for all the hours he spends working and purchasing the materials, plus going to the dump with SHIT!
I should have taken a BEFORE picture.
He's back in again and the efffin dogs are barking their heads off .  I'm ready to SCREAM.
The other day he put a drill bit through one of his fingernails and needs bandaids to keep it clean and sterile.

Ut oh! Cheryl and Trevor just came. She called me earlier and asked if they could come to use the pool today.  What can you say. What can you do. :0( 
Michelle asked me yesterday if she was wearing out her welcome. HELL NO!  Logan's bed is empty and she just had major surgery on her spine afterall.  No one at her house.  It would be fool hardy to stay there alone. 
Speaking of LOGAN...I heard yesterday from Tracie that Logan's friend Kenny told her that Logan will not be home tomorrow. Julie has decided to stay another week in Florida.
Needless to say...I was LIVID last night and I still have not got what Jill has agreed to or not agreed to out of her.

Did I mention that hubby was moved to another room. One where he has the WINDOW. :0)
Only drawback is the A/C unit is right near him and he has another room mate that he can't converse with. Not that hubby is talkative.  He did say hello to the man and the nurse attending to him told hubby that the man couldn't talk.  sigh!  Poor elderly man is so thin and can't have food or drink like other patients have. Thickened fluids and baby type foods ONLY.

Okay...... the noise from the dogs barking and the adults talking is driving me up a wall.
Grandson Gil is here and he and his mom Jill are looking for the many tubes of different glues I kept up over the microwave in a closet. Wouldn't you know it....I cleaned that stuff out of there some months ago and where the HELL did I put it????? 
Michelle was looking for where she hid her Payroll Records and Books at the same time.
I remembered WHERE for her.
Have I ever mentioned a Funny Farm ????? 
I'm sure if you looked it up in the dictionary it would say....ISHITUNOT'S House. I shit you not!

That's All Folks!

Monday, August 01, 2011

D D Yesterday's Post UPDATE

Grandson Gil had a virus and was dehydrated.
They gave him 3 bags of saline solution through the I.V. in the E.R. and he still didn't piss until he walked through my door and headed straight to the bathroom. PHEW!!!!
He woke sick yesterday and began to throw and T H R O W.  He thought he would get over it. 
Now he knows what can happen to his body without fluids. :0(
His father's father showed up in the E.R. He asked young Gil if he had been eating good and Gil told him he ate a Hot Pocket a day. Dad and Julie left me no money Papa, he said. With that papa said, that ain't right. I'm going to speak to your dad about that. I say, YEAH RIGHT!!!
His father was trying to punish him because he would not go along on the trip  and youg Gil was trying to show him he could make it through that month without help.   OH....guess what I heard yesterday. Julie no longer has insurance coverage on the FAMILY which includes the court ordered health insurance for Logan.
WHICH MEANS That E.R. bill and the ambulance ride will be ?????'s responsibility.  He is 20 afterall.
No food , only water for the rest of the day and REST was the doctors order. He drank a couple of bottles of water and slept from 8 p.m. through the night and I still don't hear a peep from anyone at 6:47 a.m.
   Tracie showed up here just as I was leaving in my car to go see hubby and bring him a few things.
She insisted on driving me as it would be darkness in no time at all.  I did feel confidant that I could drive it knowing the roads, BUT why the Hell take a chance if the offer of a ride was there. sigh!
He had 3 dirty pj bottoms and 1 dirty top to take home to wash. That darned enlarged prostrate causes him to not realize he isn't through peeing and he removes the urinal too fast.  ohhhhhhhhhhh well!
The guy in the bed next to him wears sweatsuits day and night. He can ambulate without assistance.
Tracie pulled the curtain between hubby and Mr.Congeniality back so that hubby could see it was still daylight. :0)  Te hehe
We went to eat after we left there and made it before closing time.  That can either be a :0) or an :0(
I COULD FIT INTO A SIZE 14 yesterday. My 16's were hanging loose and my W.W. beautiful scale doesn't show much of a loss since I left FL , BUT... my weight must have redistributed itself . I'LL TAKE IT!!!  I shit you not!

So ...I'm NOT HAPPY that hubby didn't get that Sunday shower, nor the one on Thursday i was promised he would get.  Sunday and Wednesday's are his assigned shower days I was told.
WTF happened????  I was pleased that he was getting some P.T. on Saturday which in the past ...weekend P.T. was non existant.

Ryan and Sarah found out Thursday that they were going to have a baby boy.  :0)
Gavin Thomas or Gavin Lucus will be his name.  Thomas is Ryan's middle name after his dad's father. I hope they choose that for the middle name.

I was all dressed to go see hubby when all the shit hit the fan. After Grand daughter Theresa left with her friends and the house was empty, I laid across my bed ( buckled sandals and all .)
First Ginger climbed the stairs and took her position behind my head, next up jumped Cash and he took a position at my lower right knee and up jumped Scamp and took a position at my right shoulder and we dozed off.  WHAT a picture that must have made.   I shit you not!

Things to do and  a REAL PLACE to go today.  Hubby wants bottled waters. He drinks room temp water and of course they put ice in their water buckets there. It hurts his throat.

That's All Folks!

Sunday, July 31, 2011

D D WHAT NEXT!!!!

Jill was suppose to work a wedding with her son Gil today. He was suppose to arrive here by 2p.m. and they would be driving together in her car that she loaned him.
An hour before that she was listening to missed calls and I don't know if she got through all of them or WHAT???? Next thing I heard from her was " I dialed Gil's number by mistake." Then I heard her voice PANIC and it continued to. She kept loosing the connection and dialing him back which only increased her anxiety .  I KEPT MY COOL UNTIL NOW!!!! 
I'm listening to Michelle's dog Scamp crying for her at the front door.
Eventually he/she kept the connection long enough to say she was coming to get him. Took my car and off she went... a good 10 miles maybe to her ex's house.
Me...I was dressed to go visit hubby.....it can wait til later today. 
NOW MY Daughter is feeling some of the stress she gives me. I took his B/P by cuff. 78/54 pulse 109  He was shaking. Denies taking anything. She had a container full of bile and fluid he vomited in the car in. Claims he woke up throwing this morning. 
She decided to call 911 and get him the help he needs if he did take something. I heard her tell the EMT's he had been depressed lately. NEWS TO ME!!!  I shit you not!
Michelle began scrambling to get someone to take his place at this wedding and once the ambulance came she began making calls to have Jill replaced. It's her and her husband's catering business.
It's BEEN WILD HERE!
Michelle had planned on going to see her dad with me. 
The skirting for tables and napkins were here. People coming for them. 
My DIL Kim was asked at 1 by Jill to come here to keep an eye on Gil while she went to work as Jill thought he was just sick with a virus or something. He STILL MIGHT BE. I have no idea yet what the HELL is ailing him. 
Minutes ago Michelle's  daughter Theresa ( my grand daughter who will be 20 Tuesday came with her boyfriend and a friend of his to see her mom. UT OH!! MOM'S GONE with auntie and another auntie. Auntie Jill and Auntie Kim .  Then I saw the W.B. show after the ambulance left. Someone in the fire department must have let him know that a call came from this address. My car is gone along with DIL Kim's car and the W.B.'s car isn't here either.   I'm dizzy myself with all the confusion going on.
Michelle was in more pain from her back surgery this morning. sigh! ;0( 
I'm sitting here shaking my head in disbelief of all that has gone down these past 2 hours.  

Visited hubby twice yesterday. Was that an omen of things to come????
He had peed on the outfit they dressed him in and he was down to ONE OUTFIT. At home we have the washerand dryer and he only needs a few PJ bottoms and tops.  Ran into Kohls yesterday where Hanes
 Pocket T shirts were on sale and NOW he has 6 outfits there and 2 here that I will bring there today......or tomorrow ????
Jill had made cornbread and I poured him a coffee in the lobby and took it to his room. He didn't need any coaxing to eat that cornbread. :0) Have another one packed with todays or tomorrows things.

Michelle just called to tell me that Jill is in the E.R. with him and they still do not know what is wrong ( meaning her and Kim.) His older brother Ryan is there. W.B. is there with his daughter Alex who he has today and ???  Jill could not get in touch with his dad ( the ex SIL from Hell ), his wife Julie or Logan so she called her ex mother in law from HELL who was able to reach her ex.

The NOT KNOWING is the WORST!  I shit you not!

That's All Folks!