with my whine?
Why do I feel like the life is being sucked right out of me.
Fantab...ulous supper Jill made and she and Butch are heading out soon. Logan and his friend Kenny are chomping at the bit for a little darkness to fall so they can go out Trick or Treating and I am left to give out the candy. Not that I haven't done it for many, many years in the past , cause I have. It's just that I'm tired too.
She said she won't be long ....The other night every one in the Moose wanted to kill Butchie,she said. Hurumphhh ..he must rub alot of people the wrong way. The workers left at 4 because he told them she needed her rest and he did not want them banging on the wall in her room to put the window framing in.
YET...it wasn't too much after that he entered her room and woke her. WTF is that!!! She had a good three to four hour nap. I ON THE OTHER HAND...................
Soooooooooooooo let's think happy thoughts. Enough whining ....Get over it Pat. I allow myself to be shit on . Plain and Simple. I did ask why the F he told the workers not to disturb her and heard...she needs her rest. To which I replied, "what about me." That fell on deaf ears. I shit you not!
:0) Except for waking when hubby had to pee and I myself had to get up and go a few times during the night...it was after 8:30 a.m. before I began my day.
Jill called me last night from the Moose Hall to tell me that my son ( her brother ) Terry showed up there. He was drinking and was still going on about his brothers and his wife and LIFE. She told him about her recent health problem and that added stress doesn't help her. Not that it stopped him. sighhhhhhhhhh I prayed he wouldn't come here, I shit you not! He lives over 30 miles away and was or will be driving with drink in him. HE has had TWO DUI's in his lifetime and my guess is HE HASN"T LEARNED A FUCKING THING! Not to mention that he is on some serious meds for depression and mood swings now.
I have thrown two of hubby's W.C. checks out in the paper recycle bin in the past five weeks. Both checks Jill was able to retrieve. Nothing is wrong with me. It's the world that is wrong. ;0)
It's been a confusing day. Once my son Randy came around 9:30 the NOISE and CONFUSION began.
It always does with him..................................and once he looks at the expression on my face he gets upset with me. Like....I don't get upset with him????? Only the contractor showed up today and he was going to be helping him ....but then the contractor needed the phone number of one of the guys that was on the job a few times to get him to come and work instead of the useless guys he has here that keep screwing things up and they have to be done over. Oh, but before that he decided to run to WalMart to purchase cleaningcloths , rainex, liquid wax and all that good stuff to detail my new car. Then it was a bucket to put warm water in because none of our car washes have whatever he's talking about so that nothing touches the car paint. Then it was information on where I keep my coffee so that he could make this guy a hot coffee. I had to look at all the purchases as he showed them to me one by one and now he needs to find a box to keep everything in nice and neat. DIL Kim came for a visit. Phone calls kept coming in , Butchie, Car keys needed to move the cars around in the driveway. Meantime I finally picked up the baby afghan and was trying to work on it. The baby shower date of the 13th is rapidly approaching. sighhhhh
Then there is hubby's wants and needs. He is having alot of pain in the bladder region. sighhhhhhhhh
Sometime around 4 Randy discovered that I am missing a rear speaker. He made phone calls to Ira Toyota and drove it there. Called me at 6 to tell me it is in their garage being worked on. Meantime I had taken a nap and so did Jill after Logan went to his dads house. The worker left while I was napping .............I woke. Tracie came. Butchie just came back from working on moving some shit out of his repoed house. He will get 2K from the bank if he takes all his shit out of the house and off the property. He has moocho to do.
Here I sit waiting for my son Randy to come back. Tracie ran to the center to pick us up subs for supper.:0)
The clock gets turned back tonight. More sleep for me. HOORAY!
Time to shut my laptop down and make room on the table for our food.
I heard today that grandson Gil will be home from MS the 11th of this month. Craziness!. Home just for his brothers baby shower. Insanity! I shit you not!
That's All Folks!
Ut Oh...thought I posted this last night. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhh
The ramblings of a mom of 9 by her KIDS that are STILL making her climb walls ,even as adults. Said I DO 3xs and I WANT OUT 2 xs. Have learned there is no such thing as a Rose Garden. My motto is Life Is Too Short To Be Miserable. When the bad outweighs the good it is time to shit can em. Laugh with me or at me, welcome to my world.
I AM WOMAN! Hear me ROAR! February 2012
WARNING !! Not for those with a short attention span. ; 0 )
You seriously need to think about going somewhere for a couple of days by yourself. You are probably exhausted. Have someone stay with your husband and go, lol.
ReplyDeleteyou sound tired and i would tell WB to mind his business concerning your contractors. I truly hope all the construction is done soon :(...i know i shouldn't care but where is WB going to live once the house is gone?
ReplyDeleteBut regardless, i hope you get some peace soon ♥
Is WB living there now? It seems that every time you turn around he is there. Viki is right. You need to get away. Let someone else take care of things for a change while you take care of you.
ReplyDeleteBad idea Jill hanging out at the lodge. An alcoholic in early recovery needs to distance themselves from old hangouts. At least until stronger. Sure, she had a health scare, but how many smokers or alcoholics have health scares soon forget? I am wishing her well and hoping that she does maintain sobriety, but as a substance abuse counselor, I have to warn you.
Mary
I'm afraid I'm going to bite my tongue off, so I'll keep it easy..hope you get your speaker fixed.
ReplyDeleteDaf,
ReplyDeleteGet in the car, set the GPs and I'll see you in four hours. Bring the pups (not Cash!)and your knitting stuff. Making up the bed in the spare bedroom. Oh and don't tell anyone where you are going....or tell them you are going to Walmart.....in NJ!
((((hugs))) Pea