D D I'd like to run away from home

It's been an efffin zoo since 12:20 ... I shit you not!
It's still Friday the 10th.and it's almost 9 p.m.
Jill and Butchie had some words to start the morning off......told her she talks nice to everyone else,but him and he is sick of it.
She told him to lower his voice as this is her parent's house, not hers. His remark was Fuck You!
Gave her a GPS and that didn't make her happy. She would rather he paid his electric bill.
She looks at it as just something else he can take back when he has a hair across his ass.
I told her if he tries that shit to hand him $50 and remind him you paid to have the shank put on that ring so he would stop crying that you were not wearing it ( even though it cut and pinched your finger) and say.....we're even.
Around noon she was all dressed up.  Low heels and all.
 Was going to a wake of a kid she grew up withs mother later.
The two of them went off a couple of hours. Think I know where as they came back around 2:30 and heated up leftover N.E. boiled dinner she had made the day before for their lunch.
It definately wasn't out to eat that they went.
Hubby and I ate it for supper later. Tasted even better than the night before ...if that's possible.
Hubby and I thought we would be able to get in a nap before Logan got out of school, so we gave that a shot.
Wasn't but minutes later it seemed that my Randy came.
Was looking for Jill  and said he'd come back later.
We lay down again and her son Gil came to give her flowers and her card.
Had to wait around for her to come home for almost an hour.
There went our efffin nap. sigh!
I knew hubby would want to go to the chiroprator when it re-opened at 3, so we both got ready.
Just as we were leaving the driveway some of her friends showed up.
One of the guys from this neighborhood has been in a rest home for 5 weeks now and hubby has know him since 1945ish. Suggested we go down the street a mile or so after we got adjusted to visit him and we did.
Having that transfer chair in my trunk it isn't the burden lifting it out of the trunk as his other one was to do these extra little things.
He and Joe went down Memory Lane for better than an hour. :0)
Five p.m. we pull into our driveway. Holy shit .... more vehicles.  Good ole DD and Tom were here of course. Everyone is mixing drinks and having an efffin great old time. Someone had a boom box out there on the side yard blaring Lady GaGa music. I wanted to pull my hair out about that time. I shit you not!
Gone was her plan to go to that wake. She had changed out of those nice clothes.
I didn't look to see who was out there. Heated our leftovers up and no sooner took the last bite when the phone rang.   Tracie....Wondered if I had eaten cause she was going out to eat if I wanted to go.
When I heard the area I said.....just give me a minute..I'll be right over. Turned the pool pump on and added chlorine and headed across the street
Needed to buy Winterizer and anti-freeze for the pool to close it up and needed to get the Hell out of the house. I shit you not!
Walk by her car and see the front passenger seat loaded ( as usual). Empty Sprite and chocolate milk containers on the floor . She empties the seat off by tossing it in the back and I kick stuff away from under foot and off we go.
I need to stop and play my nunbers, I hear her say. I look at the stack of paper she has in her hands.
Think the words Holy Shit came out of my mouth cause I hear her say "it's not as bad as it looks."
Told me she does not play a dollar on each ticket so she won't have to drive to the lottery headquarters if she wins, nor pay taxes. Twenty five cents times four on each number she plays. The ten or fifteen minutes she was inside the store....I  kicked back and let the silence envelope me.  mmmmmmmmmmmmnnnnnn
So I got my pool crap and watched Tracie eat at a place next door to Namco and sipped a diet coke.
Was better than what I had left at home.
Come home after dark.... the fire pit is blazing, the music is still blaring . The drinks are flowing...in and out for ice and a refill and they must have hired a comedian ;0) cause there's alot of laughter going on out there still.  What is it? The drunker you get the funnier things are????
We retreat to our room and a short time later I hear hubby say somethings wrong and he is holding his head.
I rush to his side concerned . When he spoke he told me there was no pain, but his ears and head felt like they had alot of pressure in them and they were going to explode. It passed.  B/P was fine. hmmmmmm.
Now what the hell can that be? He has had those brain bleeds which caused a damned bad headache.
This was different. It's so fun to get old.   NOT!!!
The partying is still going on...Logan has his friend Kenny staying overnight and I can hear them cutting up in the living room.  Just being kids....J u s t so much c o n f u s i o n .
I'd like to run away from home......have too much shit to pack up. :0)

    Thursday night Tracie came over about the time supper was ready to get put on the table.
Hubby says LOUD enough for her to hear..." what the Fuck is she doing here again."
I scurry out to the diningroom and she told me the reason she came over was because I had said the day before that I wanted to go to Michaels for yarn.  THAT, I did.
She didn't know that I ordered the yarn online that morning...sigh! She was trying to be kind enough to take me once she heard me say that.
Of course she had heard what hubby said when I asked her when we got outside.
Back in my room I go and tell hubby she is here because I want to go to Michael's.
Okay go the fuck to Michaels, just get her the fuck out of here ... he yells.
Told her I'd be right out and ran and put the pool pump on...added the chemical and away I went.
Damned yarn was a dollar more a skein than it was online..FREE shipping too,.but I bought 5 skeins of BerryBlue anyway.
Twenty bucks gone. Not cheap to knit ...no sirreee.
People do not want to pay the price of what it costs to make things let alone for your time. That's why I prefer to make and give to relatives, a shower gift or store away.
Thank goodness I still have plenty of buttons for these sweaters. Not that they came free....it's just not out of pocket now.
Get up to  checkout and notice the pecan turtles I like, but don't need. ( 3 to a pkg)
OMG! $2.49 cents.  They are .89 cents in the grocery store.  Damned glad my tongue wasn't hanging out for one of those. I shit you not!  That's insane!!
It's now 9:48 p.m. and hubby is snoring.  Chuckling as I'm thinking...must be efffin nice.
Sometimes he can just sleep through the din and other days the slightest things wake him.
Go figure...I can't. :0) Nor will I try.

   Around 10ish this morning I called my Sonny in FL to wish him Happy Birthday.
His wife Deb was at work and handed him money and told him to buy himself something nice. :0)
That's my girl..................................
He is sending Jill or I on a mission tomorrow. Needs pictures of what is left in Deb's father's yard.
They were closing on his house today and her brother was suppose to have a truck, car parts and a dumpster out of there. Her brother is being difficult and causing problems with her settling the estate.
Oh what fun...when people pass away and siblings show their horns.
I'd like to be a fly on my wall.............or do I ????
I know most of my kids think Jill has has gotten more than her fair share living here for nothing over 10 years.
I don't disagree.  She will act like she had to give up her life to nurse us.  That's my gut feeling. sigh!

   Ten thirty p.m. ....pulling on the warmer pj's and reclining in bed to watch some tv.
Am ever so glad that all that goings on is on the other side of the house.
If we sleep with the tv on we won't hear it.....ain't happening.....which makes me chuckle at another memory.
Son Terry was about 17 and was out front with his buddy late one night...hubby was working the night shift.
You know how voices and noise travels at night..........and it was keeping me awake. Had no A/C then and had the windows open.
Went to the front door a few times asking them to lower their voices.....the 3rd time I went, I had packed a brown bag with some of his clothes and threw it out the door. Screamed at him to go move into Harold's house and locked the door. I was so angry I was acting like a wild woman. :0)
GNite!

      I lie.....No it wasn't!
Once in  bed...hubby woke and began bitching about what went on during the time I was out with Tracie.
A steady stream of people in and out using the bathroom and making drinks.
So I was trying to disfuse that situation while Logan and Kenny were still in the livingroom makig noise .
Go to them and tell them to get in the bedroom. Bedtime. It was 11 about then.
You could hear Jill and Butchie's voices coming from the other end of the house. That bedroom door was open.   I could feel the tension coming from hubby and was holding my breath.
I get out of bed to peek at what was going on in the kitchen. Butchie was making tuna fish and had bread toasting for his sandwiches... My mind was willing him to hurry up and get the hell in that other room before hubby blew up.  Think it was near midnight when all was calm......EXCEPT for my Ginger. Up at my head she was ....SNORING. She has a cute squeeky snore, BUT!
 I began to chuckle at the entire happenings of the day in my FunnyFarm and this... on top of it.
Hubby tells me to shake her. Only stops her for a sec or two and she was right back at it.
Eeventually she moved down between us and somehow we nodded off.

MORNING!
Came to a few times hearing a tea pot heating and saw the bright sun. Nodded back to sleep.
When I was in desperate need of the bathroom I got up.  8:58 a.m. whoaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
Kenny was silently playing XBOX, Jill and Butch were off in their respective vehicles and Logan was still asleep and still is at 10:14 a.m.
I'm tippy toeing around making coffee and bringing the computer up so hubby as not to wake hubby.
What the Fuck! I hear a motor racing and reving. Go look and Butch has his boat in the driveway running water thru the engine.  You gotta be shitting me!
Scurry as quietly as I can to close the windows and doors up and say a silent prayer.
I know the rest of the world is awake at 9:20 a.m. , but hubby was not. Yesterday morning he woke at 7, but he retired to bed earlier than last night.
When I inquired where Jill was when he came inside he told me he thought she went up to the shop to make sandwiches for their boat trip today.  It won't be in his boat he said cause it still isn't running right.
Going out with DD and Tom in theirs.
 Trying to get themselves killed when Tom gets so drunk he has no regard for water safety, is my guess.
Like how many times has he said that he needs to get his boat fixed so they don't get themselves killed on Tom's boat.
Hubby woke all by his onesy at 9:44 and then I could type on this keyboard. :0)
He asked me if they were still asleep.  Answered him...no.     Thank you Lord.
He slept hrough that 10 minutes of boat motor reving. 
Jill just called me for the real estate companies phone number. She jsut took pictures of the yard I mentioned up above  and needs to get inside the house ( real estate office has the key) to see if Deb's brother left written proof that he disposed of his dad, 2 pistols and rifle like he said he would.
They need that documentation for the records of her dad's estate.
She is the executrix.   Guess that is a nicer word than bitch where siblings are concerned. I shit you not!
It's a new day...going by faster becasue of the late start. sigh!
Heard that Jill's son Ryan was none to happy when he and his wife came into this scene last night.
Zero tolerance for alkies. They didn't stay long. I see a ? of Dexter on the table. It's one of the things she follows. Whatshmacallits!  CD, Video, serials.... I'm not up on that shit. I shit you not!
Hope today is a better day .....hope next year her 50th birthday is celebrated somewhere else in a much better way.
That's All Folks!

pssssssssssssssssst! Someone gave her a joke gift amongst the gifts I saw on her bed.
KY Touch Massage 2 in 1 tingling sensation.
:0(    I must live in a cave....never knew they made that shit. 
Where was this shit when I was young ????  Never to old to learn, BUT too old to use it now. sigh!