D D lil good : ) most.... bitter : (

 My #6 kid Sonny and his wife stopped in last night for a short while. Was good to see them.   Landed in RI and rented a car. Will fly back to FL on Monday.
Lots to do today in preparation for her dad's memorial service Sunday. Meet with the minister , florist, a realter ,attorney,etc.     Deb was freezing, She likes the weather hot,hot,hot. There was a nice breeze and it felt good to moi after boiling spaghetti twice because hubby and Logan said the first pound wasn't cooked enough.  Two to one... Moi lost.... but ate from the first pound cooked and then it became critter food.  Two nights ago there was two skunks out there eating Kentucky Fried chicken bones. They eat with us at the screen door watching them with no problem. You don't bother them, they won't bother you.
   Went to the back shed earlier....Charlie was curled up sleeping.....on an inflatable wheelchair cushion.
Guess who put that in there for him. LOL Nothing but the best for Charlie.
   Didn't do much of anything today....Kid#2 Larry and his wife Sombay are taking me out to eat Chinese food tonight.  Happy Mothers Day to me....Must remember that I have a camera and bring it to take pictures of Ryu.  
   All kinds of confusion last night until bed... none worth mentioning except Logan dropped a dish on his toes when he was helping himself to ice cream . Ran for the ice pack for him.  He called his dad in MS after school today to tell him he broke it and needs to go to the doctor ASAP.
It may be broke, but in past have been told that there is nothing they can do for a broken toe.
Called his step mom at work.. She asked him why his mother didn't take him to the doctor.  Jill was on the way out the door to work. Function for 200 at the local Elks Hall.
If moi thought it was necessary, she would take him in  a heartbeat.
His pediatrician was 1 mile away from this house. Dad pulled a sneaky and got all his medical records and transferred him to a pediatrician in his town a good 10 miles from us 6 years or more ago. Was court ordered to keep medical insurance on his 2 sons at the time they were divorced. . Like yeah,  right!!!  Paid cash  and never paid the outstanding balance at the old pediatrician's until he was court ordered to.
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Moi has never felt such anger  towards a person.  Enrolled Logan in a daycare for his girlfriends working hours at age 3 and listed the girlfriend as his mother. Only a surprise visit by my daughter to that daycare and being denied access was how that was discovered. Not once, but twice. Second time he had married the woman that is supporting him and his household now while he goes to the Mississippi College of Law. As Logan so well tells it...dad said he is going to become a lawyer for dads that get screwed by their ex wives. His wife enrolled Logan into her then 3 year old son's daycare program for her work hours on Fridays.  Jill and her ex have joint custody.  Monday thru Thursday Logan is here. Friday thru Sunday there.   Only a medical emergency with Logan brought out the fact that his mother was not the person that listed herself as his mother. They could not reach her and Logan was 7 and smart enough to mention he had another mother.
Daycare was reported for not getting any medical info on Logan. He was born with a hole in his heart that never closed and would turn blue in the mouth area when he played hard or was over excited. His dad tells him to suck it up like a man .
 You might wonder why Jill's ex goes to a law school so far away from MA..... Has 2 felony convictions...one for putting his hands around Jill's throat that left her unable to use her voice for over a week and another for putting illegal gaming machines into his mother's variety store.  MS College of Law was the only place that would accept him. That's the reason why.
Now he's going to try to get his record expunged.
On his school breaks he flies here and back...the wife flies there and back from time to time.
Somewhere after 5 years of court dates for non support amongst other things and 2 trials Jill gave up ...even waived her rights to the thousands he owed in back child support.
It was then my daughter did a one hundred degree turn around and is not the same daughter any more.
Her ex would just become meaner and more spiteful.  Did not want her kids to witness any more of his wrath towards her...... THAT,  moi can understand.  It's for my kids sake mom , I would hear.
So his current wife gets $230 a week child support for her 7 year old son from her first marriage , earns over 80K and Jill gets nadda from them for Logan ...unless she takes him back into court ....won't, because the kids have made her promise she won't have their dad locked up again.  Locked up? Once the judge had the court officer cuff him, his parents headed to the room where you pay and made a check out for the amount the judge ordered  paid .....then they walked out of court together.
Logan gets a free school lunch... Too young to understand that program is for low income families., which is good.
I'll stop right there........for now.  Some of you already know this...for those that don't....if I sound bitter, I am.   I shit you not!  If you stuck around long enought to finish reading it....my apologies. It's not what I'm all about. 
I want to be the better person, but something new with her ex always comes up without fail, which stirs these ugly feelings in me up.   
So want to delete this.....sigh.. it's 9 p.m.
That's All Folks!