All my good intentions are on hold today. It's one of those ...where do I begin days. My get up n go has got up n went. I shit you not! Think the medical terminology moi will give this is, Lazyitus.
Played with the ferrets, gave them fresh water n such, ran the vac , sat on my ass to crochet a few more granny squares. Got the bright idea to design my own flower for the center n such, ( could see it in my mind's eye ) going to be pretty if it's ever done. Boring! I shit you not1
Can make other types of afghans that are of my own design, soooo much faster. This won't be one that I want to part with or make another. Have so many things made ... for my family to dispurse as they please when I am no longer... Future babies, shower gifts n such.
Moi goes through spurts where I just knit, knit, knit or crochet,crocher,crochet. Have plastic storage tubs filled, stored up in the crawl space attic. Yarn, do I have yarn! Tell myself I can't get planted until I use it all up... always buying more when I see something new or a new color. Right now moi would have to live to be 125 to use all that yarn up. I shit you not!.. At the rate I am going on this afghan, maybe 150. LMAO
Making baby sweater sets n such are so enjoying, especially once I make it once the patterns way, then put my own design into it. Have so many note pads with my scribbling, corrections n such...some I can't read my own writing..I shit you not! Getting smarter in my old age n at least adding what the item is or should be....on the top. Pictures may be posted at a later date.... hahaha.
Bored . Never!
Got an email from d in law#2, Sombay. Her uncle died Friday..she flys to CA tomorrow... Going to her doctor today to have a biopsy.. Pap smear results ;she didn't elaborate what was suspected. Told her that in 1967 moi got a call from her GYN saying the pathologist found some cells in my pap smear he did not like the looks of. Get in hospital . Don't know the correct terminology ( co in nigh zation ) is what the word sounded like ), tissue removed all around in a cone shape. Had paps 2 x's a year for 5 years All were Negative. Told Sombay, I hope she hears those beautiful words too.
Sombay is a sweetheart. Has to be to put up with son#2. Truth be told, moi wouldn't have married any one of my sons if they were not my sons and if I was their age. Moi does not think her children, sons or daughters are perfect. I shit you not! . They will tell you that their mother hardly ever comes to their home. By choice, not my situation. Could never be called a meddling mother in law. Have a great relationship with all but one d in law.
Daughter in law3 Nancy ... it's been her choice to not come around often... possibly for a good reason, but that's another story. Kid #3 Terry was once married to kid#6's wife Deb. I shit you not! Best circumstance ,d in law #6 is still my daughter in law. She too is and always was a sweetheart.
Hey, Remember I told you we are not The Brady Bunch. Was I right ???
Every time I pass by the sliding door in my bedroom my eyes are drawn to the yard where that heap of work is needing to be done. One day at a time....but, not today.
Daughter#7 Jill , came home around 10p.m.... went straight to her room/bed... beau#5 worked from noon yesterday until 8 a.m. today. Was suppose to work from 8 to 8.. Fireman 22 years... taking off time has just been one of his problems... before you say to yourself " well he should be making a damn nice paycheck " , I'll clue you in. Lives beyond his means, budgeting is a foreign word, toys ( his ) has a 6 year old daughter with an ex girlfriend. Alexandra ( Alex ) is a beautiful red headed, little girl whom is getting F'd up by her parents. Pays $260 a week child support. $110 a week for health insurance for the both of them.. AND what Alex wants, daddy buys. There doesn't have to be a special occasion... Alex loves me best is where I am heading with that. WII, Ipod,American Girl doll, DSI, resturants of her choice, we are not talking McDonalds or Burger King here. She takes a few bites of a $7-10 plate. A family moderator, a physcologist, attorney fees...being sued for payment .. Utilities shut off constantly. Gas is off again now. . Child support is garnished from his wages.
As a result , most of his own making... he does have some money on payday, blows it & don't pay his other bills.
To be fair, he has been good to myself and hubby with repairing things. Much appreciated. We also have treated him good, fed him many meals , made him n Alex feel welcome..Now it's to where I wish he would not do anything around here..just fade into the sunset. The two of them are off somewhere as I type this. The somewhere has to have a BAR connection I guarantee. Let's see... it's Monday.. they have been gone a few hours. If low on money ( probably is ) it's a bar, the Moose most likely. She will fix them something here to eat when they get back here is what the norm would be. It's not a healthy relationship for either of them.
Repeated these words many times in the past 22 months when I hear how much debt he is in. " He is not moving in here." Don't need another drinker living under my roof. I shit you not!
11-26-09 Kid # 2 Larry , his wife Sombay & her 3rd son's 2nd baby, Crap! Have CRS today..can't remember her name..do the 1st's ..His is Ryu
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