I AM WOMAN! Hear me ROAR! February 2012

I  AM WOMAN! Hear me ROAR!  February 2012
WARNING !! Not for those with a short attention span. ; 0 )

Monday, August 27, 2012

D D I feel like I'm SIXTEEN

and am LOVING IT!!! I shit you not!
ED 
 
 
With Ed....the feeling is mutual. Two sixteen year olds walking hand and hand together. As we approached the campgrounds office/general store to have a LOOKSEE inside, a woman maybe in her late thirties(sitting outside) said to us, "you two look like a cute couple together." :0) Ladies...Ed is ONE HUNDRED percent different than my husband was. In looks, height, size, the way his style of clothes and shoes,his style of underwear and socks, personality, likes, dislikes, you name it. He praises me all the time, thanks me, lets me know how much he appreciates being with me, how much he liked the meal I fixed us. This man makes me LAUGH and damnit...I never had that with any man. He likes conversation...rather enjoys it. He keeps his mind active doing crossword puzzles daily, ( WHEN AT HOME) is into computer games, eats food cold ( right out of a can) soup included... whoaaaaaaaaaaa, likes his veggies and pasta al dente, but if it's over-cooked he'll eat it too.
Likes the OLDIES....Big Band, Sinatra music. While I know those songs and that music and the words, I am more 50's on up to the present. My lady friends.. and maybe a gent out there too.... we laughed ourselves silly this morning. Bless his Pea Pickin Heart, he played his motorhome radio every day, ALL DAY for me (my music) ( the one on the dashboard) and when we went to leave the campgrounds this morning , the battery was DEAD. :0)
IF not for Ed having to go to a funeral at eleven today for the last of his wife's relatives ( her brother ) we would have STAYED PUT. He made a call to AAA and 45 minutes later we were jump started. Meantime...we played cribbage and enjoyed each others company. There have been so many funny moments these past 3/4 days. One time he was telling me that he knew three men with his same birthday (Feb.24th). I kept quiet UNTIL he asked me if I knew anyone born on that date. I looked at him and gave a cutesy reply..."my ex husband." ;0) My first husband to be exact. I don't believe I told him I had two ex's, but OHHHHHHH WELL! He may have figured it out...BUT if not...no biggie.
It will come up..SOONER OR LATER. I shit you not!
He'll never let me forget that I had him hanging off his side of the bed in that motorhome. Each time it's mentioned (in different cutesy ways by him) we bust out laughing. I went to roll over to go to sleep and needed to use the facilities, reached for the edge of my side of the bed and thought to myself, Damn, this bed is big...where the hell is the edge. ;0) Kept reaching out/over with my hand to find the edge ( all the while thinking ) this bed is bigger than I thought it was. Wellllllll, now I know why. ;0)
He was trying to be nice and not let on that he was ready to fall on the floor. As I write it now....I'm laughing my ass off. I shit you not!  One of the things he came out with later was...in a serious tone( dead pan),"I thought I had a Queen size bed." "You do", I replied. THEN I got "THE JOKE" and we'd laugh like silly. He keeps asking me how it feels to be sixteen. I LIKE IT! He admits that he does too.
Friends.... I like him a whole lot. Not love yet....who knows. Meantime, I am having myself the TIME OF MY LIFE. I shit you not! 

Jackie...you mentioned the blue pill. He flushes terrible when he has taken Viagra and doesn't like the way it makes him feel, he says. . BOTTOM LINE...he needs to find something THAT WORKS.
Has said he will talk to his doctor again....anyone out there with something you think might be better than Viagra to take???   As I blush...on this end...I am doing everything but standing on my head. ;0)
Fifty six years and eight months...he was married to one woman. I find him...a KEEPER. Not going to look any more. Lets see where we go with our relationship. Meantime.., excuse my English and moi, I feel liike a bitch in heat. I shit you not!
I like,like,like being called Princess and Sweetie and Patty.
All of you that commented, made me feel so good and some made me laugh. You know who you are.;0) All of you make me feel light hearted and GUILT FREE. I shit you not!
Going camping either Wed. thru Monday or Thurs. thru Monday. All the resident campers are probably wondering what happened to Ada, but they are all very sweet and friendly to me. yessssssssssssssss
Lady and Ginger go to the dog groomers tomorrow.
Jill is having a rough emotional time over me and her son Gil. Teary eyed today. .............................
Ohhhhhhh wellllllllllllllllllllllllll.
(((hugs)))

That's All Folks!

13 comments:

  1. You sound so happy what a wonderful thing to see in you! I had abusive realationships all my young life and then I met my current husband that treats me with total respect. I had to get used to it also, isn't it fun!! Actually I think Ed is very nice looking, and what a gentlemen. Keep on with the happiness you deserve it! Hopefully a doctor will help. Hugs to you from me! Pearl

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  2. I've been checking in here every day while you're out gallivanting around with a bloody 16 year old! LOL I am beyond happy for you Pat. I don't know if you believe in karma but all of your selflessness is paying off for you now.
    I'm so pleased you've found a man who treats you well and appreciates you. I think he's nice looking too.
    I hope Jill isn't trying to guilt you about your new life, don't let her.
    Just keep having fun.

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  3. Daf,

    I am soooooooooo happy for you! Ed is exactly who you need in your life.....and I think he's pretty damn cute! You deserve this now more than ever. Don't let anyone spoil this for you. Remember the mantra.

    Love and hugs Pea

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  4. All of the Above and more! Your "happy" Made me happy :) Keep us posted. Hugs from Alabama...

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  5. can't add anymore either ENJOY!!!!!!

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  6. Smiling here. :)
    Happy things are going well for you.

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  7. You sound like your finally getting to enjoy life. Good for you.

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  8. OMG! I have been so out of touch will everyone! I am Sooooooo happy for you! Viagra only worked a couple times for Hunter. The last 4 times we were intimate...It was me giving him oral sex and that worked......for him. He will manually take care of me but I still need....well you know. I am so very happy for you that I don't even have the words. Be sexy. You are sexy. You may find the sex you crave in someone else but I doubt you will find the kindness and thoughtfulness in anyone besides Ed. And may I just say, he is VERY attractive.

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  9. Don't let Jill spoil anything. She never worried about you when she was having her fun.
    Mary

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  10. Nice looking guy! Obviously he's a keeper with or without, well, you know... :)

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  11. Nice looking guy! Obviously he's a keeper with or without, well, you know... :)

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  12. I love the way you write! I hope things continue to go well with Ed, and hope he finds something that 'works' for both of your sakes :)

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