Know that I'm "old", but now THIS!!!.."Old and boring." Heavens to Betsy. What next!
Me thinks my life is like our New England weather...subject to change. I shit you not! Soooooooo while there was no drama yesterday a new day has dawned. Good Morning. It's 6 am. BBL
Knew things were bound to change....beginning with Gil getting his ass out of bed to go to work with the W.B. This 21 year old baby gave him and his mother so much shit. Doesn't like working with the W.B. Wellllllll excuse moi! WTF is someone that waits on his sorry ass to get out of bed after being repeatedly told it's time to get up out of bed outside of the W.B. Declared he was quitting. Took a 20 minute shower.NO EXAGGERATION! I SHIT YOU NOT! Heard him gagging away in there. Sounded like he was trying to make himself sick. At first I thought it was one of the dogs that was choking on something and raced to ther back bedroom to save who ever it was. Jill accused him of taking something and he got all huffy and was in denial. My gut tells me her mother's intuition IS CORRECT. She decided to go to his ten a.m. appointment with him and I am babysitting.
I've heard he isn't a morning person enough times to make me sick. When our government made that decision to stop the mandatory service requirement...our kids were done no service. Only my oldest joined and then had an injury to his leg during boot camp and was discharged. EVERY one of my sons would have benefitted. That's my own personal feeling. I wanted the service to clean up the mess I made of raising my sons. ;0)
Anyway...the plan was.....work a few hours and take the W.B.'s car to his appointment and then come back to work. INSTEAD he dressed and went back to bed. Must be nice to not need money He has a $100 cell phone bill and needs cig money. . Hope the catering job is enough to keep him in change.
Betcha sweet ass when he worked for his dad he didn't give him any shit! That's my gut feeling.
Last night Logan told his mother that he will be missing 5 days of school this month as he is driving with dad and Julie and Erzi to MS to pack up all dads belongings and see him graduate from law school. Where the fuck is Gil in the EX SIL from Hells plans ? He was his first born .....isn't it important for him to see dad graduate??? Jill made a small wave about him missing school and how dad did not consult her on this. Let's see where this ends. Betcha she sends him off with her blessings. We have to be "friends" with our kids, ya know. Last night I kept my mouth shut when I saw no homework being done. It's time for moi to give up the "battle." If she don't care....so be it.
I am going to try my damndest to distance myself from all this shit.
Another lesson in " nothing is written in stone " was brought to the fore front this morning. Ryan and Sarah were never going to let her mother babysit the baby. Both her parents smoke like chimmneys as does her two brothers that still are home. The entire house smells like cig smoke. Wellllllllllllllll tomorrow Ryan goes to Dallas,TX on a buisness trip and Sarah depends on him to get the baby fed and dressed to come here while she pumps breast milk. Therefore...her mom will be coming to their place and getting the baby ready to bring him to her house cause Jill has Logan to see off to school.
Not to say that there isn't any cig smoke here. The only difference is it's just Gil and Jill that smoke and while the baby is here they do their smoking outside. Looiks like it's a case of "beggars can't be choosers" and the babysitting is FREE. Something tells me more rules will go by the wayside as time goes on.
Getting close to the time for me to leave for my primary doctor's appointment.
Son Randy is here doing THIS AND THAT! He's bitching about the dog chewing the pool cover now. Like does the dog owners give a shit? They didn't pay for it. NOW he's got holes in it big enough that he can fall in. OHHHHHHHHHHH WELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL! If it was NEW, it would make difference. I shit you not!.
My parlor rug has at least a dozen cig burns in it. One is as long as a cigarette.
UT Oh....my BP will be UP by the time of my appointment, if I keep this up .
SHUT MY MOUTH!
Daughter Cheryl just came with my card and Easter Lily. Coming through the door she lost part of a flower aand was all upset with herself as they selected a "perfect plant."
Must go....and give my undivided attention to her for these minutes before I leave for my appointment. BBL
.... B/P 120/70 . Compliments from the doctor and her staff person on how I look for all the stress I am under and I've maintained my weight too . No loss...weigh exactly as I did on my last visit, which was a few pounds more than I was before I went on the cruise. Ohhhhhhhhhh well....I'll get serious about my weight ....SOON. Told my doctor that IF ONLY I could get my daughter well...to which she paused ....then asked what was happening with Jill. Told her she's come in falling down drunk more than once in the last month. . "She told me she isn't drinking anymore", said she. Not So...said I. Her appointment with said doctor is 11:45 a.m. tomorrow. ;0)
Things went not so good with my son Randy when I came back. The W.B. and his boss were here measuring out my new steps and Randy is pissed that I am not having him do it. SO BE IT! He has enough unfinished shit to keep him busy for a month. I want things FINISHED! He's packing up his ladders and shit as I type. Could this mean that I've SEEN THE LAST OF HIM....PLeeeeeze.
Hubby's appointment to get his penis worked on is April 25th..... the ONLY Date they could give me and he has an appointment that same day with his neurologist. Let's see...BRAIN or PENIS.. The penis wins out hands down. I shit you not!
Son Randy called me upset that i could even think of hiring the W.B. or anyone else for that matter to do work around this house when HE IS AVAILABLE and needs the work to keep him out of trouble. He wouldn't have been able to make it these past months if I wasn't helping him financially for jobs he does around the house. Told him that I wasn't going to live forever...then what????????? sighhhhhhhhh Tomorrow we'll get into it again. Hiring ther W.B. is doubly hard for him to accept. He can't stand him anddddddddddddddd he whistled as to attract Randys' attention as he measured the job out. OMG! As I live and breathe .....I still have a two year old on my hands. :0(
Heard Logan on the phone calling mom. She went to get groceries for the house. Am anxious to hear why he told her " he wants to know why you aren't home." He was talking to his dad ( gag me ) not long before he called her. Hope he was talking about the baby ..........I can hear him fussing. Gil is watching him.
Now there is a bunch of crap from Logan on getting in the groceries. Gil did more than his fair share.
Mom is quieting down the baby before she tackles putting the groceries away. Ohhhh the JOYS of having grandkids living with you.
I'll be looking forward to going out with Tracie tonight. I shit you not!
(((hugs)))
That's All Folks!
The ramblings of a mom of 9 by her KIDS that are STILL making her climb walls ,even as adults. Said I DO 3xs and I WANT OUT 2 xs. Have learned there is no such thing as a Rose Garden. My motto is Life Is Too Short To Be Miserable. When the bad outweighs the good it is time to shit can em. Laugh with me or at me, welcome to my world.
I AM WOMAN! Hear me ROAR! February 2012
WARNING !! Not for those with a short attention span. ; 0 )


I nearly spat my tea all over my motel bed when I read that bit about him getting his "penis worked on" OMG that made me giggle.
ReplyDeletePenis/brain, aren't they one and the same? ;)
Don't soften and give Gil any money. Tough love, my friend. And Jill. Falling down drunk at least once a week? Not good. Perhaps she should look around and see if their are any AA meetings in the area.
ReplyDeleteA treatment program would be better, but I doubt she would agree to that. Remind her about how sick she was a short while ago. Alcohol 'really' is deadly. I just admitted a client today who's horribly depressed because her mom died not too long ago from alcohol related causes. She blames herself for not trying harder to make her mom stop. Perhaps you should use that example for Jill. Would she really want to put her sons through that?
Mary
LOL..agree with Foxy
ReplyDeletethere are times when i can understand people going out for smokes and not coming back lol and i don't smoke. Enjoy your outing.
Take two Zaneks and go to lah la land and tell everyone to figure it out. Or option two get an apartment for Jill and sons get em moved in and change the locks on your doors. And watch em all get jobs! :)
ReplyDeleteI've heard a hand job called a lot of things, but never having it worked on.
ReplyDeleteI've been away and will have to read back to hear about this penis thing. That reminds me.....In the nightstand in the bedroom of the house we rented in Florida,...there was a Viagra. Funny. Take care of you and you must be doing something right if you blood pressure is that good. Peace.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Foxy, that was funny! And I also agree with Pearl it really is time for them to go, but their your children who am I to tell you what to do(but honestly girl it is TIME). All the money you spend on them you could pay for help with that husband of yours And you could have your own bedroom! Just saying.
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