D D Welllllllllllllllllll after Saturday, SUNDAY wasn't bad.:0)

Reflecting back on my Sunday... this morning....................  
The front door opening and shutting. The side door in the parlor being used to come in from the back yard and occasionally my bedroom sliding door as well. All to be expected.   I shit you not!
Dogs WOOF EVERY SINGLE TIME someone comes through the front door. Dogs are yelled at to HUSH!  CONFUSION ! CONFUSION!
We never used the words Shut Up when grands lived here or with grands around, but I may have been guilty with my kids. Can't remember back that far. 
Hubby tells the grands that I was a waitress at the Last Supper. ;0)
So....nothing out of the usual .  That's the way I like it! uh huh! uh huh! 
W.B. came with his daughter. Then they were gone. Well.....as soon as Jill made it clear that how he wanted to spend the day was not like she wanted to spend her day.  Don't make plans for me without asking me first, is what she told him. He left..... pissed off. 
Ryan came shortly after noon time and just relaxed out in the yard reading and swimming. Sometimes Jill joined him and they chatted ( mother and son to mother and son ). 
Daughter Michelle was suppose to take her dad to his friends wake.  THAT didn't happen. Her back was hurting too badly and she couldn't get out of bed.  HMMMmmmmmmmmmm mmmmm , but not too badly the night before that she and Jill went drinking after they were through work at 10 p.m.  
I got him dressed ( for a wake ) and myself and Jill and Ryan got him to the car and back into the house when we came back.  He got to see his friend Joe ( the deceased's brother ) amd give him his condolances on his wife's passing away a few weeks ago.   In the beginning of the day hubby had said that he didn't feel like going out today and make a comment that he felt like he would be back in the hospital in a day or two. When I told him he looked fine and why he felt that way, he told me looks mean nothing, It's how he feels with what is going on inside him.   :0(    Glad to report that he is still HOME. :0)
Made him a lobster roll for a late lunch and I DID IT AGAIN..........broke down and cooked him oatmeal on the stove for a late breakfast. He had asked me to put the stuff out and he was going to stand at the stove and cook it himself.   Soooooooooooooo in that case......possible broken hip....I conceeded! arrrrrrrrg!
   Ryan's best man and his wife and year old daughter came after 3p.m. Sarah his wife got out of work at five and she came.  They cooked on the grille and seemed to be enjoying themselves. :0) 
W.B. and Alex came back. They swam.  W.B. was told he and his daughter were welcome to partake in the foods.  He tells Jill ( like we don't know it ) my daughter is picky. Apparently chicken and steak on the grille she doesn't eat. :0(  Jill didn't offer to make her something else.  HE LEFT. Probably took her for her adult sized meal of fried haddock that she only takes a few bites of just like he always does, because that is what she wants to eat. . Alex doesn't want the kiddie size meal.    She's what???  ALL of 8 ?   Oh yeah, that makes her AN ADULT! 

Tracie came after 7.  I changed into a skort ( size 14 Sonama label ) ( lub that label  ;0)  ) and we went out to eat.  I  intended to ONLY order a salad and something light.  Didn't happen . Steak tips and rice pilaf with THAT SALAD and even at that I forgot to ask for the Select Portion.  :0(  So one would think that I wouldn't eat everything on my plate...Right?  WRONG!!!!  So if I bitch about the weight I've gained or haven't lost......Well, you know!!!!  :0)
   Made it clear (  as I have on past occasions ) that I wasn't up to any company once home . THIS TIME Tracie didn't need to come in to use the bathroom and LINGER and LINGER.  Yessssssssssssssss!
Told her I was going to watch the Jaycee Dugart story with Diane Sawyer sitting down to talk with her.......I DID for a whole half hour and AWOKE at 10:45.  :0(  Hubby asked me how I liked it.  DIG...DIG. :0(
Must have been exhausted...ya think!  Now I'm mad at myself, because I really,really wanted to watch it.
 I will buy the book she wrote when it's in paperback.  I can't begin to imagine Logan at twelve being abducted and all that was thrust on Jaycee , thrust on him and she was eleven then.  EVIL PEOPLE are in this world. I shit you not!
Speaking of Logan, Jill called him after I told her to call him tomorrow. :0) Okay I admit ...it was tomorrow, because it was after midnight. Maybe that was what she was thinking. ;0) ;0)  He was awake and babysitting Erzi.   Gil and Julie went to a friends house to a party and were staying out all night. 
Nice. FUCKING NICE!  They took him along to babysit Erzi is what THEY DID!  A twelve year old boy watching a nine year old boy.  :0(  grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!   Mother and son chatted and he kept calling her back to chat some more for the next few hours. 
Once I heard THAT...I went to the computer. Jackson,MS is 100 miles from a lake and a  3 to 4 hours drive from a decent beach since Hurricane Katrina came through and ruined the beaches.
So much for him going to the beach every day............oh yeah, dad has to work and Julie said it wouldn't be fair to go to the beach without dad. Logan bought it!  You throw him a skooter and a few bucks and he thinks he has it made.  Being taken advantage of , not to mention the responsibilty being put on him isn't even on his mind. Dollars and a skooter is!    SHE Julie...is doing exactly what the Ex SIL from Hell wanted Jill to do. Leave Ryan ( her son from her first marriage ) at age eleven to care for his baby brother Gilby age 2 to join him in his FUN recreational things. Jill wouldn't hear of it. Therefore she was NO FUN!  He found a PLAYMATE and for five years Sandy put her kids aside for him and finally LEFT.  Now we have JULIE ( going on 6 years now?)
Anyone that would give up an 80K job to be with that ASSHOLE will always be a Lost Cause.
 Dumb and DUMBER!!!!!  The amount of education you have, MEANS NADDA!  I shit you not!
Okay... got that of my chest. Feel better Pat????????  

Here is something that I read earlier today. I'll pass it on.
Enjoy life NOW- It has an expiration date!
Maybe the EX SIL from HELL could have wrote it.........hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm  Yeah, BUT at who's expense???
Hubby has a 1 p.m. appointment today with his Primary doctor.  Just a short drive. No highway.
Jill leaves here around noon and will be back next Sunday. Just in time to drive hubby into Boston Monday for an appointment with dermatology.  Every six months or less he needs pre cancerous things removed.
Working out in the HOT SUN has not been KIND TO HIM.  I shit you not!
Hot topping is a miserable job. Someone has to do it and he did in between his seasonal job of heavy oil deliveries.  Another out in the sun job getting up on those big oil tankers to fill them with thick tar like oil that factories and hospitals heat with.

W.B. does not know that Jill is going to Florida.  This ought to be interesting. I shit you not!

Hopefully my Cheryl and her family will get out here today to use the pool and grille and have a nice day.
I'm just as hopeful that she will be pleasant and not BITE OFF hateful words about anyone or anything.
Time will tell.  sigh! Her husband Dana tries to calm her down, but that tends to get her more irratated. sigh!

Okay...I'm agitated !!  Hubby was just now making audible commentation about something on tv. She is not 165 pounds he is saying in a few octaves louder than general conversation OVER and OVER.  WHO, I asked.
That woman on TV. She weighs more than 165 pounds, he says.  
Okay...here's the Real Deal. A woman was raped on the River Walk in a town near us.  Assailant was identified as Andrew B.  6'2" and weighing 165 pounds.  They are looking for him. 
Trying to make hubby understand what he perceived and what was true was different ...took some explanation.  Did he accept what I told him?  He has dropped it. What more can I ask for.
Except for the News on TV ...quiet prevails. :0)

Must take my leave and circulate the blood in my body. I shit you not!

That's All Folks!