D D Finding my voice

I was not a happy camper yesterday! No sireeeee!!!!!
The W.B. was called to work some overtime. 1-5 p.m.
Jill began making supper and unbeknownst to me she took off.
Of course when I discovered she was gone, I assumed it was to meet the W.B. at the Moose. IT WAS! :0(
The preverbial " hair across my ass " grew longer.
I was onto Logan about getting his homework done...hubby is on me about the ham being cooked too long and it would be dry.....my patience was wearing thin.  I shit you not!
Come 6:30 she calls Logan's cell phone to have him ask me to turn the potatoes on. She will be home at 7 is what she told him.
Meantime...Tracie had come over to borrow a shovel from Jill before she left and discovered I was still home, so she came back after she was done clearing up the driveway.
Jill  helped her out with the snowblower to clear the biggest mess up.
Come 7p.m. I was pretty COOKED..........BOILING MAD!  I shit you not!
I was sitting in the livingroom with Tracie and Logan and glaring at the door.
7:15 comes...............7:20...... Went and got my coat and told hubby I was going out in the yard to look like I was taking off when she finally pulled up.  He didn't understand what I was telling him....Logan sees me with my coat on and is asking me not to go. We can fix the supper nana ................meaning me of course. Hubby is asking me what the hell is wrong with me..........................
I threw my coat on the table and headed to drain the potatos. Got them whipped and in Jill comes.
Logan began telling her that I was going to leave..........from her I hear " What's the big deal....I had the oven set to shut off at 7.  Then I see W.B.'s face and I GLARED!!!!!!!!!
He headed towards her room and she proceeds to cut the ham and had Logan set the table.
The four of us sat down to eat.    Logan had set a plate out for the W.B.
At some point Logan asked if the W.B. was going to eat and she said no.
Sooooooooo we're sitting there and she asked me why I was going to leave when there was a meal here.
Her words...."it doesn't make sense."
My words to her were, " It does when you are PISSED OFF!"
After Logan ate he got up from the table and went to her bedroom and said, " where's Butchie?'
She answered, " he left."
   Oh yeah... he left via her bedroom outside door. Didn't want to see me.  Knew I was PISSED!
Got money to spend in the Moose, but not in the grocery store. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
   After dishes were done, I happened to walk to the sink and saw Jill's bedroom door closed. hmmmmmmm
Tried to see over the snowbanks if her car was in the driveway and as I'm peering out I see his truck with the plow blade on it pull away.   She was gone again.
Angry.... YOU BET! 
After much NUDGING and NAGGING Logan finally set about to finish his homework.
 Come 9:15 Jill sent him a text to get to bed.
I GUESS THIS IS THE NEW PARENTING 101......................................
He was still doing homework and had to use my computer as I have Office ? and he needed to answer questions and print his answers out.  Now it's after ten.  
I tell him to hit the hay and he goes with no problem into his room.  Up I get at 10:30 to check on him... Yep, tv on and he is awake. :0(  Gave him my Mr.N---- GET TO BED! The tone means OR ELSE!
Right around 11 I hear her......hear her talking to Logan...hear her nuke ?
Finally I can relax and fall sleep.
Before that hubby asked me why I wasn't wanting to watch the shows I usually do.
Told him for no other reason than I was pissed and couldn't enjoy the tv.
"We're Fucked ", he said. " I can't do anything anymore." ( Meaning he can't make repairs, shovel, plow, clear our roof off, NOTHING! ) ( Meaning we are dependant on Jill for everything. )
I told him not to be so sure about that!  The lioness is raising her head! I shit you not!

THIS MORNING.............. after Logan was off to school I went to her room.
Asked her if she knew what last night was about.
Maybe some of it she said.
Started numbering things and said they were in random order.
Partying once a week. Asked if last night was her one night. Right away I hear...I didn't get drunk. Partying is drunk and wasted.
She was acting so self righteous. hmmmmmmmmmm  no drinking probem here............
Next: How much parenting and supervision is Logan going to get when I am gone?
Her reply was something about she won't be telling him to do his homework twenty times. hmmmmmmm
Nothing mentioned about leaving him alone to his own devices.
Next! The W.B. having money to give to the Moose, but not put towards the groceries.
Her reply....can't argue with you there. 
I asked her what she thought my evening was like and proceeded to tell her.
Having to get up and check on the meal constantly....not knowing that the oven was set to go off at a certain time... having to listen to Mike gripe about overcooked DRY meat, having to get onto Logan to do his homework and I didn't sign up for any of this.
I have no life....no happiness...and I'm tired of living this way, I told her.
If you think when you are away drinking that I am having a nice quiet evening ...I AM NOT.
Told her I was surprised at her for putting up with the W.B's bullshit for as long as she has. Thought she had more sense. He is a USER and he will always find someone that will try to SAVE THE BOYand HAS in the past.
I spoke....didn't yell ...
Sometimes I heard her agree to things I was saying.
Not that I'm giving it much credibility.  oh no.......... 
Get this...somewhere in this...she tells me she lit into him about loosing $800 on her income tax returns.
HE GRINNED........told her he thought she was smart enough to write off things against the winnings.
WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tells her he will take her to FL when he gets his tax refund to make it up to her.
Right away he is thinking of spending money stupidly. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
She told him she will not go ........... I'm not so sure about that!
     My next words to her are going to be..................if things are no different when I get back from Florida, I'M CLEANING HOUSE!
I'm sure she will ask me what that means... will tell her to figure it out for herself. I shit you not!
   Hubby used the words last night that our only recourse would be to sell the house.
I'M NOT SO SURE!  I shit you notI

The W.B. hired her son Gil and a friend to clean off roofs that he got hired to do. $20 an hour he is paying them.  Dangerous work.......sigh!
Didn't hear her mention our roof getting done. :0(
Son Randy will be here today and I will ask him to do the back of ours. Jill has been getting as far as she can reach on the front and sides.  The back you need a ladder for as there is not enough room to stand away to use the roof rake because our property line is close to our neighbors and we have a fence up.
FUCK W.B. and the horse he rode in on !
   The house was quiet.   Her car is gone... Young Gil has Julie's van parked in my driveway.
She flew off to MS yesterday . No child support in any amount in three weeks now. Who's fault is that!! MY DAUGHTERS for not taking him to court for non support.
So Julie and the EX SIL FROM HELL continue to live the good life.
No money problems there...........................
That was another knife in my back yesterday.


The Cardinals are landing on the bush in front of me as they make their way to the feeders. :0)
Must get MYSELF to visit my son Jay today. He is home. :0)
Not asking her to drive me. Will grip the steering wheel and pray. Our side roads are a mess, but the sun is out today and the main roads are clear. :0)
   Hopefully tomorrow is a GO.................

Jill just came in.. Had gone to McDonalds for a breakfast meal.
Walked up to her and told her that Randy was coming today and I was asking him to clear my roof off.
She replied she was going to try to do it and I told her it wasn't a good idea.
Told her I want NOTHING FROM THE WB FROM NOW ON. He was the one that offered to do it and............... if things were not different by the time I came back...I was CLEANING HOUSE.
I told her, I WILL BE BEHIND MIKE ALL THE WAY!

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SHe went to the closet for her snowsuit.
Know she intends to get that roof cleared off.
She can be as stubborn as I can. :0(

That's All Folks!