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Lasr evening I read an email from DIL Deb in FL and she mentioned that she saw on Facebook that Jill listed herself as single AGAIN.

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Replied back that it was NEWS TO ME and went to look it up myself.

Yep............SINGLE!

Later on DIL Kim IM'd me inquiring about her STATUS too as son Jay had read it on Facebook.

Remember back to when it was TELEPHONE that word traveled by???

COULD THIS BE TRUE???????????????

Have not asked her.........figure when she wants to talk...she will!

Also have seen these one, two day, one week breakups and don't want to get my hopes too high.

Right away my mind went back to her saying Sunday evening that Randy and W.B. had some words and it wasn't good.   I'm thinking now....All over his three $15 swordtails that W.B. let Logan put in the chlorinated water????????????? REALLY ??????????????

I DO KNOW that if Randy perceives your words wrong he can get PISSED and W.B. has a way about joking that can piss people off.

Too blase' .

Randy had gone about setting this tank up in his home the correct way and got advise on how to correctly introduce fish and how many at one time to add and when. If W.B. joked that ...they were just cheap fish and called him a cry baby....UT OH.  I shit you not!

All the while he was here yesterday he kept saying, " tell Butchie to keep his fucking hands off this tank.""Don't let him near it!"

Thought it was strange that Randy drove her home from the Moose Hall....but it did make sense that if the W.B. wanted to get home with his daughter, Randy could take Jill the opposite direction.

OR DID IT as I'm thinking now??????????????????

It was still rather early when she came in. Before the football game began....as early as five thirty I'm recollecting.

Where do my thoughts fly to now????????????

My elderly neighbor Art next door ...long before hubby bought this house.

Hubby's parents had lived just at the end of the road on the street that runs the opposite direction and he rented a few houses in this immediate area when he married his first wife.

 Hubby was a close friend of Art's  younger brothers when Art's parents owned that house.

 The W.B. has been plowing out the end of his driveway these past five years for FREE and making it much easier on him to snowblow the rest of his driveway. sigh!!!!!

This is sooooooooooooooooooooooo me. I shit you not!

Jill has other friends with plows and we ourselves have got by just fine pre W.B.

Jill shoveled and used our snowblower when our neighbor Mel across the street lay dying of cancer and Tracie recalls how he cried the day before he died when he saw Jill and her then boyfriend clearing out his driveway and pathway to the door saying, I should be doing that.

He passed away in the month of February.

Jill has always helped the neighbors out....even as a minor child.

It's snowing a fine snow that shouldn't amount to much , BUT I hear Wednesday we are having a BIG STORM. Just what we don't need.  I shit you not!

Back to yesterday.

Hubby was on son Randy's ass almost from the git go. Well not quite. He already had the bricks and boards together and the tank half filled whe hubby went to investigate.

He started on me again this morning with the same thing. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THE POWER GOES OFF FOR AWHILE????

We will need the fireplace ( that we haven't touched in eleven years ),  he bellows. .  I did suggest the stove oven and burners could be lit. ( Motel/Hotel was on my lips, but I knew better than to light that fuse. ;0)

There was a time wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy back when it was a woodburning fireplace that we used it when we lost our heat due to the furnace needing a new motor.  We used our Pelonis heaters too as we had electricity.

Randy called me later in the evening to tell me Friday he will take me to choose what fish I want to put in the tank first and purchase them.  Then Logan can begin adding some that are COMPATIBLE.

Yes, Randy...I have been reading Freshwater Aquariums For Dummies that you left here.

I am going to make a velcro skirt to cover this setup he made for me. Not today...not even soon., but I will to hide the supplies I will keep under there. One of these days. It's not at the top of my TO DO List!

If I had the house to myself I would have plenty of space for this tank. To not have had Logan in my life since he was a year old would be...UN-IMAGINABLE!

He has been my one continual  BRIGHT SPOT. I shit you not!

Then he tells me after he left here he headed to the Greek's bar and drank two beers after listening to Mike. ( Randy has been laying off drinking)

How do you put up with it, he asked.  It's not easy!

He hoped I had some RX'd med's for my sanity. Told him I've been taking one since a month  before I took Chantix to help my nerves while I rid myself of the cigarette habit.

Incidently....THEY MUST STILL BE WORKING as the other two times I quit on the patch and the gum....I LIT UP DURING  his tirades.

Know I could run to Jill for a Marlboro light, but haven't felt the urge. AMEN!

This generic Wellbutrin must be working OVERTIME! I shit you not!

Yesterday hubby insisted that the W.B puchased both the masked ferrets. NOT SO!

He raved and I tried to get through to him....nicely... He was WRONG!

Logan's dad ( the ex SIL from Hell) bought that for him .

The white ferret was his older brother Gil's and hi ex girlfriend Cassies and they tired of it and brought it here because Logan's ferret Cena looked LONELY... Ha Ha...good story on their part. Sounded better than ...we are tired of cleaning and feeding OUR BABY... Diesel.

It was ferret number three Bitsy that the W.B. bought for his daughter and it BIT HER and she didn't want it.  Hence....Smorz became Bitsy after he gave her to me. She was a biter then and is still when she gets riled up.

Think or rather thought I got through to hubby....cause later he reminded me that Oprah was coming on and while I hardly ever watch her show, he knew that I wanted to watch THAT SHOW. Which left me grinning from ear to ear like the rest of her audience and happy for everyone. Mama wasn't quite as thrilled .

Not my problem.

Later on he reminded me that The Bachelor was on in an hour and I needed to do what I needed to do so I could watch it. He detests that show and does sit through those two hours . Not without negative comments thoughout though.

Soooooooooooooooooo I'm thinking after I refreshed his memory he realized that I just may BE RIGHT and this was his way of making NICE.

   Sooooooooooo this morning hubby starts again about the aquarium and insisted that I must have bought it and it was a good story that Randy bought it and tired of it in a few days and gave it to me.

Swore on my life that I didn't pay him any money or there was any truth to what he had just said. He told me I would be dead a hundred times over for all the lies I've told him swearing I hope I hope to die if I'm not telling the truth.  WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Told him I only paid for the cement blocks. Period! THAT'S THE TRUTH.  Oh sorry, I didn't need to yell here.

Again he went through the feeding and cleaning and I reminded him I was going to be gone for a month. ( still haven't told him LONGER ).

If he shows his UGLY while we are there, I'll cut my vacation short.

Sure I'll be punishing myself too, but why have that SHIT in someone elses house.

It isn't me having this chore that is really behind his anger. It's less time I am in this room with him. sigh!

So things are quiet again here..... :0)

Logan went off to school minutes before seven. Hubby slept til 8:30 . Charlie has emerged from the shed and Jill fed him. Not once, BUT TWICE this morning. Must need the fuel to keep his body heat.

Haven't seen the other ferals lately.  Jane of Jane and Art next door emailed me that she hadn't seen Charlie lately and asked were we still caring for him. Emailed her back that yes we were and he has lots of bedding in the front shed. :0)

What will the rest of  today bring????????????????????????

DIL Deb reminded me that my suitcase can't weigh more than 50 pounds. Must try to weigh it on my scale.

Sitting here twisting and yanking on my hair. What a terrible habit I have picked up. sigh!

The vet's office called me yesterday to let me know that Lady's bloodwork was fine and I could call and make her an appointment for February Special teeth cleaning. Leaning towards having Jill call PetSmart and making an appointment to have it done there. Surely they will be cheaper than the $363. estimate I got at the vets.

Groomer has called and changed Lady's appointment today due to the pending snow storm Thursday.

DIL kim and son Jay came. for a short visit.

I heard her voice call out Helloooooooo when they entered the front door.

Hubby begins..." who the FUCK is here." ( Directed towards me )

I told him Kim. Who ?  Kim. What the Fuck did you say? Kim. I can't understand you, he said.  Finally I walked closer to him as he was still saying what the fuck did you say and by that time Kim had her shoes off and was at our bedroom door.

I told her to come in and show him who the FUCK was here.

I wanted to ask him why he had to word that question like that. Like why can't he simply ask....who is here?

We certainly were not having a Home Invasion.  We do have family!  I shit you not!

As Jay was leaving he asked Jill how long she was going to stay SINGLE.

She laughed.  Once the door was shut, I said, " who's single?"

No reply....so I went back to my bedroom to my Diary.

That's All Folks!