I shit you not! No sooner was I going to review what I had typed and make corrections and the phone rang.
Jill calling me from her cell phone.
Was it just two days ago that I told her if she found the house that I could do a land search and find out who owns it. It was....
She gave me an address and told me to call her right back.
I called her back with his full name ...I let her know his first name was Mark like he had told her.
She had remembered that one street sign she saw began with a C and I forget what other letter a street began with that she remembered, but the two of them driving in that area came across them.
I was just excited to hear that they found the SOB that everything else was pushed to the back of my mind.
The same car was in the driveway and she could see the pool in the back yard that she remembered seeing
She was fighting the urge to knock on the door and say " remember me?"
I told her that she and Butchie could not take the law into their hands.
Go to the police.
If you are thinking I am being able to sit without interruptions and type before I forget half of what I was told.......you would be very wrong.
Grandson Ryan called to ask if he could borrow hubbys good Santa Suit and the wig, beard and complete get up while I was doing some running around with Tracie around 2 p.m.
He is coming to get it and hubby is going through all his bags of goodies making sure everything is there.
I did remove the curlers and head form we use when we wash the wig and beard. :0)
He had me running getting everything out of his closet so he could have it ready and just now he was looking for the Santa's glasses.
Which means I got up off my arse AGAIN to locate them.
Cheryl had come with Trevor to give me a card and some cookies he decorated around 10 a.m. . :0)
Know it was shortly after I posted.
Things got very confusing . Trevor wanted to borrow one of Logan's Nintendo DX games as he lost his.
I'm telling him he can because he returned the last game he borrowed and Cheryl didn't hear me and is telling him he can't take anything home.
Some hurt protests and BUT'S ...Nana said I could and that was straightened out.
I loaded her up with more stuff. Told me she brushed her dogs teeth with toothpaste after she bathed her.
No No No..... Gave her dog tooth paste and a dogs toothbrush.
More treats for Oreo. When she got home the last time Oreo was jumping up on her as she carried the bags in. Kids told her I must have put a dog treat in there. :0) I did.
She used tiny pieces of electrical tape to wrap my gift from Shayla . Gave her scotch tape to go.
Shayla wanted me to open it. A ZhuZhu pet hampster. :0)
TOY HAMPSTER the best kind. I shit you not!
I've been admiring these things and wishing my grands were younger.
Shayla must remember me as a PET LOVER. :0) I shit you not!
Moi???????????? As the saying goes, " if the shoe fits......wear it."
Tracie called during this time to say she would be here in an hour or so and I needed to shower and dress still.
STOP! Let me off this ROLLERCOASTER. I shit you not!
Didn't finish that last sentence when Ryan showed for the Santa Suit around 4.
He decided whereas this child of his good friends is a little over a year old she wouldn't know the difference between the cheap Santa Suit ( hubbys first AFFORD) and the expensive Santa Suit, so he chose the older suit..
I need to wash hubbys expensive wig and beard. It's been way over ten years ago that he wore them and I don't think I washed them after they were last used. :0(
A job I dread. Putting curlers in it after washing and making sure the mustache curls up just right. sigh!
Glad we had brand new el cheapos if you call $10.95 each cheap.
That was back in 1973 he bought a few of them to use until we could afford better.
Try buying those el cheapos for $10.95 each today.
Now hubbys closet is torn apart and I have all the stuff that Ryan didn't need or want to put back. sigh!
I did snap a few pictures. :0)
Hubby played Santa for him and now he is playing Santa. :0)
Jill nor the whine bucket never came out of her room. while Ryan was here.
They had came home just before Cheryl was leaving at noon and we talked, she changed her clothes and said they were going out to eat.
When I came home with Tracie their vehicles were here and they were in her room.
Butch came out minutes ago and I asked him what the matter with her is.
Just wiped out he said. She's been sleeping and he has been watching a movie.
Heard someone out in the diningroom talking but didn't know it was Ryan.
He's a the livingroom computer now.
Dear Diary, I have digressed so many times during my tellimg of this day.
Which I will do again.
Sombay called me yesterday to see if they could take us out to eat tonight.
We ( hubby and I ) were thinking the OutBack where tomorrow Sunday we may have snow and won't bother to go out.
Well she called me again while Ryan was here to tell me they would pick us up for Chinese at 6:30 p.m. tonight.
They went to the Outback last night with one of her grown sons and his family. It was his birthday.
He is the father of Ryu that I have mentioned before. Also Krista that just turned a year old this past November.
Tonight I will give her their sweaters. :0)
I'm typing away as fast as my fingers will let me so that I can try to relate what I learned from Jill and Butchie once Cheryl left and we were alone while it's still sort of fresh in my mind.
They went to the police station in the town it occurred.
Were told there to go to the town it happened in to make the report.
They found out he is squeeky clean. Not even a speeding ticket.
The detectives will be making calls to her two friends to verify things. Maybe I will be called to tell what she told me.
They will go talk to the bartender Tim and see if he knows the guy or was just saying he did.
What he saw as she was leaving there and also review tapes.
She was told that the parking lot was patrolled every so often and cars license plates are taken down if left there after hours.
Before I got a chance to talk to her, I searched the white pages and found out his wife or ex wife's name is Catherine, he is 49 and the names of his two sons and daughter, but not their ages.
Like she and Butchie said. It's in the laws hands and how they persue the information she gave.
If this guy eventually kills someone and the law didn't persue her report there is nothing she or Butchie can do..............true... SAD, BUT TRUE!
I read True Crime books, so I know from what I speak.
Now I have to get myself changed. Six thirty is breathing down my neck. I shit you not!
Hubby must be tuckered out sitting at the table using me as a Go Fer.
He is fully dressed and fell asleep waiting for them to call and say they are on their way. I shit you not!
Tomorrow I MUST...I must! I MUST! make out Christmas cards and stay away from my computer as much as I can. Without having severe withdrawals, that is.:0)
My intent today was to write as much as I could remember and only have a little to add.
Easy for me to say that. In this household nothing goes as planned.
From minute to minute things are subject to change. I shit you not!
Jill is up and I showed her the pictures.
Now I need to put the camera back in my coat pocket before I forget to take it tonight.
That and the bag with the kids sweaters I made.
Be back tomorrow......as hubby always says.........Is that a threat or a promise. :0)
As we were ready to leave W.B. asked me if I'd pick him up a To Go plate and handed me the money.
Asked him about Jill. She had only eaten half a small sub and the rest was left on the counter when they had returned from lunch.
She just wanted to sleep. Everything was catching up to her he told me.
Sunday Decemeber 19th
8:30 ish
This morning I heard her doing alot of gagging/coughing and making trips into the bathroom.
Just saw her sitting on the couch and asked her what was wrong.
Diarrhea and she had a nose bleed this morning.
All the stress of what happened and she's been beating herself up as to what she should have done different and everything is catching up with her.
Nerves..... mom.
Yep, they can do a job on you. I agreed.
I'm assuming what she meant is ....go to the police and the hospital as soon as she got in her car.sigh!
Even with her stomach pains she hasn't been as incapacitated as she was yesterday. sigh!
That half sub was all she was able to get in her yesterday.
We all have those shoulda,coulda,woulda, beat self up times. :0(
Life will always be a learning experience. I shit you not!
Just heard her make her tea and more cough/gags from her.
W.B. did spend the night unbeknownst to hubby who has difficulty just getting into the bathroom.
I on the other hand can make many trips to the front door and peek out before I go to sleep for the night.;0)
Last night we were watching tv until 1 a.m.
Commedian Rodney Dangerfields old ,old show with a young Jerry Sienfeld amongst other comics.
Had some belly laughs watching one comic do his skit wearing a boxers helmet and gloves and he was a riot as a PUNCH DRUNK BOXER.
I love it when people can make SILLY of themselves with all the speech and mannerisms of someone that had taken too many punches and thought they were A OK with the world. :0)
I digress... W.B. spent the night. Don't know why I'm not that upset about it or with him.
Maybe it's because I knew she wasn't DONE with him when I saw coffee bags still on our grocery list and she did buy them.
NO ONE besides W.B. uses coffee bags.
Maybe it's because he was there to watch over her while she lay in bed sick.
Maybe I just need to pick my fights. Maybe,maybe,maybe.
Hubby on the other hand ..................................Not Good if he becomes aware of it. I shit you not!
Another trip and more cough/gagging into the bathroom. Nasty diarrhea.
Just heard the snow predicted for today will be arriving tonight now around 7 p.m. .
That means the OutBack will be an option for us. It opens at 1 on Sunday. :0)
Did have a good time with son and Sombay last night.
I humbly took their generous Christmas gift. Told him I know how hard he works for his money.
Works with that smelly / nasty fiberglass materials making things ...like house pillars that look like The White House columns amongst many more items.
He has worked with this same company since he was 18 and he is 55 now.
Lots of breathing that shit in. Ruins your work clothes. I've had four sons doing that kind of work and two still do. Larry and Terry. Larry has been working from 5 a.m and gets home at 7 p.m. Seven days a week.
In two weeks they will have hardly any work. Feast or Famine!
Everyone wants their things made NOW!
Two pictures of our cookies and my son and Sombay to download and upload and I must, MUST, MUST get off my ass and make cards out.
Sombay asked me if I got my card with Ryu and Krista's picture.
Had to tell her that I have been punishing myself.
Not opening a card until I get that persons card signed, addressed and stamped.
I've been a BAD GIRL............I shit you not!
That's All Folks!
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Our cookies from Trevor. :0)
Larry aged 55 and Sombay aged 60.
THEY LOOK GR8 FOT THEIR AGE! I shit you not!
Got side tracked again.
Hunted up where I hid stuff so Jill could gift bag or box them.
She must be feeling better.
W.B. has gone to watch his daughter Alex sing at church today.
Proud daddy moment. :0)
Another distraction. We needed more gift bags and we had some left over from last year we put up in the crawl space attic.
Earlier I had mentioned I could have purchased the KitchenAide mixer I have admired with some of the monies spent and Jill said she has one in the attic that was hers when she was married.
WOW! It even has a meat grinder with it. I'm psyched! I shit you not!
Will I get back to being Mrs.Betty Crocker???????
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
More distractions. Noontime and no cards written out, BUT she has every gift bagged or wrapped that was purchased for her kids and I just did hers and Tracie's and a few other of my own childrens.
Oh and Ales' gift and the whine buckets gloves and cap to keep him warm while he plows and shovels my driveway and yard.
Me thinks he will be around awhile and I'm NO DUMMY!
Keep his hands and head warm so he can work longer. :0)
I do the backyard for the dogs and bird feeders. Might be able to get his arse out there and take that job away from me.
Love to shovel so it will be hard to give it up though.
I'm a DREAMER! :0)
