The SHIT hasn't ended! :0(

Ed and I went to my house Tuesday so I could gather up my car insurance info and my Ginger , along with all her baggage, ie; pet bed,carrier,food and bowls, leash, yadda,yadda,yadda.
Meanwhile, Jill had run the seven miles or so to the police station in the town where I had the accident to get the report and then on to the insurance company for the accident forms required to be filled out after which you make FOUR copies. I'm still plugging away at filling these forms out. They are as involved as your income tax papers. I shit you not!
Before leaving....I went into my purse to give Jill money to buy Christmas gifts for her two oldest, (Ryan 31 and Gil 22) as I had already purchased online the 1K laptop that her youngest Logan ( age 13 ) asked for. He has been told that after this Christnas there will be no BIG gifts. Santa has to watch her finances now. As for myself, I put gift cards in some grands and cash in others in the amount of $25. This too will be coming to an end for the ones over eighteen, which is all but three grands.
Those in their 20's and 30's should understand.
I had counted my money before I left Ed's and had $320 in crisp new 2o dollar bills from an ATM machine. HAD is the key word here. Only had $240 in my wallet. Like WTF!!!! 
You guessed it...I SURE AS HELL DID...I left my purse on the kitchen table UNATTENDED.
Grandson GIL stole from me AGAIN. :0(  Jill was sick and hurt that he woud do this to me AGAIN. I am the one that provides for him and this is how he repays me,she told him.
After I left Jill tried to get him to admit he took the money and he played mind games with her. Eventualyl he admitted tto taking ONLY TWENTY.More mind games he played on her, ie; like when do you think I took it. Another was, and how.
Like WTF does it matter??????????? Is this how they ) the guilty ) shift things off onto another subject?
She began taking her nerve pills. Ones she hadn't had to take for awhile.
THEN she left the house to go buy a bottle of rum and while she was gone he took off.
When I called her she was drinking her rum, had locked and barricaded the doors and was determined to not let him in. She was bawling her heart out to me and I tried as best I could to calm her down. She hadn't eaten either. sigh!
The whine bucket was working his 24 hour shift and earlier she told me about the crap he had pulled on her the night before (which thoroughly pissed me off. ) She had bought HIM,Gil and herself a pack of cigarettes before she went to her grandson's first birthday party and when she came home HE had smoked all of his and wanted hers. She told him NO. With that, he withdrew a cigarette from her pack and sneered at her as he lit it and blew the smoke in her face.
I was LIVID when I heard this. I shit you not!
It was HERE AND THEN that I decided he HAD TO GO and asked her if she wanted me to tell him he was no longer wanted in my house. "Would you", she said hopefully.
Six thirty a.m. Wednesday found Ed and I up and on our way to my home, so as to be there in time for when the whine bucket gets out of work and to my door around 8a.m. 
He came....I walked out the door with daggers in my eyes and said, "you are no longer to come to my house. If you do, I will get a restraining order." he said "really.???" I said "REALLY." With that I handed him his engagement ring and he quipped," that's all I came for," Then he looked up at Jill standing in the doorway and said, " thanks for everything!" Turned on his heel and walked to his truck.
Good riddance to bad rubbish!

Gil was at some girls house in another town( she was a druggie and has gone clean) yeah right!!!!
She went to pick him up. As of yesterday she isn't able to do TOUGH LOVE on her son. sighhhhhh
I can't do that for her !!!!!

I have so damned much on my mind. These damned forms are driving me crazy. There are things that I need to do and things I much rather do. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Some of my kids want to see me. Going out to dinner tomorrow ( Ed and I ) with my #2 child (son Larry) and his significant other Sombay ( a peach). Chrsitmas Day will be spent visiting his daughter Sandy in Salem,NH. Want to get to Kohls and buy Ed a nice warm robe for Christmas. He has none and thsi he can use.  I shit you not!
I've started a crib afghan that is my own pattern as a gift to one of his grand daughters that I have met in TN and is expecting her first child in May.
My dog Ginger isn't acclimated to her new surroundings and when she roams I get nervous that she will use the rug to pee if she doesn't remember where her box to pee in is now.
There is so, so much more that I could write about. TIME, MORE TIME is all I need.
Ed suggested we go to Mike's grave before we left and we did. Later we went to his mothers and his wifes graves. He took me to a nice restaurant and we had shrimp scampi for lunch. YUM!  :0)
The minutes and hours roll by so fast. I shit you not!
My daughter Cheryl thinks the world will be ending (Mayan calander thingie) and wants to see me to give me my gift tomorrow. She was almost in tears when she was on the phone with me last night. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
I give, I GIVE, I GIVE UP!
TICK,TICK,TICK!
If I don't post again before Christmas...A happy one to you all. (((hugs)))

That's All Folks!