It's the first time I've felt this way. Hubby was admitted to the hospital around 6 last night.
Moocho to do and if I had the desire to begin...I wouldn't know where to...................sighhhhhhhhhhh
The doctor in ER suspects the confusion is from the methadone and acted baffled as to why I am giving him it so often. Had the med bottle with me and showed it to him. Hubby ( after hours of not producing urine ) had to be cathed and it takes two days to do a culture on it. Seeing his confusion and some blood in the Depend and in his urine, they thought it was best to keep him a few days. You get some rest, I was told.
Traffic was horrific and it was pouring. There is NO WAY, NO HOW that I could have made that drive myself. Thank God Jill still can, BUT for how long . We'll have to cross that bridge when we come to in wen she goes to renew her drivers license.
Called hubby....talk about confused. Who's this? me. me wh?. your wife. Who? Pat where are you, I can't see you? He thought he had been wherever he was for days. It got crazier and crazier. I IN TURN am feeling just a NUTTY and OVERWHELMED. I shit you not! There is no beginning and no end in whatever I do. Phone calls to make to his Home Health people to cancel their visits for now. . Today was our Seniors turkey day meal at the Elks. Our SIL Joe is the caterer. Now I had to call the old time Van on the next street and remind him I had a ticket for him and I have been trying to call and wake Tracie to let her know I have her a ticket. Come and GET IT! So much to do in my bedroom to take some stress off me and I'm making stress for myself. sighhhhhhhhhhh
Randy worked until 11 p.m. installing insullation, etc in Logan's bedroom. Not quite done for the inspector to see and approve it at noon today.
Daughter Michelle is going to go up and see her dad this morning. Leaving around ten and I want to drive with her. Logan leaves for FL when he ges out of school at 2 p.m. today and I want to be here to say goodbye and I love you.
Did manage to sleep some from 11 to 6. Had some leg cramping that made me wake and get up and put a hot pack on it.
It's 9a.m. Hopping in the shower and dressing.
That's All Folks!
I AM WOMAN! Hear me ROAR! February 2012
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sorry to read all this...i know it's hard to do , but getting some rest is not bad advise, please take it.
ReplyDeleteYou have to get rest. You cannot keep going the way you are. Hubby is where he can get proper care, now you take care of yourself.
ReplyDeleteMary
I'm happy he's in the hospital. They will get to the bottom of what is happening. While he's gone, you need to take it easy and rest while you can. Please do that.
ReplyDeletethis is heart breaking..all of it..you are going to end up having a nervous breakdown while everyone around you is scratching their asses..wish I was there to help you..
ReplyDeleteSeriously.
ReplyDeleteTake a frickin' nap lady.
Yip. I'm going all postal on you now... I'm sorry that he's in the hospital again, but you'll do no one any good if you end up there with him.
Sleep, baby. Sleep.
Hi Pat, I'm glad to hear that your husband is getting care in the hospital. I hope "this time" they can help him. Good luck hon, hope you do take advantage of sleep time.
ReplyDeleteI agree that he's in the best place right now and PLEASE try to get some rest m/f.
ReplyDeleteLove and hugs,
Trishxx