I AM WOMAN! Hear me ROAR! February 2012

I  AM WOMAN! Hear me ROAR!  February 2012
WARNING !! Not for those with a short attention span. ; 0 )

Friday, August 06, 2010

D D It's 54 In Bismark at 7:53 a.m.

and it's 69 here in MA.  High will be 87 and humidity is at 86.  : 0 (
Have any of you played with that weather map that I posted the other day ?
Think I'll keep that site in my email box forever. Like just in case I travel................will know how to dress for the day. ; 0 )
They are dressed to beat the heat. ; 0 )Okay, no cracks about this one. ; 0 )


Day 5 without candy..... sniff.    8/2 was 204.5.  This a.m. 202.4   yesssssssssssssssss!!!!
Sanoma brand blouse...here I come. : 0 )

Hubby opened his new box of Russell Stover soft creams yesterday.  A few have nuts in em...offered em to moi.   Passed!  Maple nut.........sniff, sniff. 

   Jill just got up and turned the A/C on.  Didn't realize that I had shut it off just before she came in at 12:30 a.m. 
We do that to each other. Sometimes she shuts it down and my bedroom slider is shut and I wake up sweltering.  This time it was her shut up in her room.
   Nothing has changed in her drinking pattern, except I haven't seen her staggering drunk.
Still drinks rum and cokes every day.  sigh!
  Walked down that end of the house and got a head full of info.
Her car was hit and run at The Anchor in Beverly.... it was witnessed and the plate number was taken down and given to her.
Butchie and Chris were with her.   hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm interesting, huh?
Butch has left to go shower and change.  good, good, good.
Don't tie up my bathroom and rise above the top of hubby's shit list.
She is planning on having a cook-out on Sunday.  Chris and his granddaughter Jamie will sleep in our trailer overnight Saturday.
Butch will get his daughter Alex at 8a.m.  and Jill will let all her boys know, so they can be here.
They all love Chris.
Just one big happy family.......... ; 0 )
   OMG! Go to get a refill on my coffee and get bombarded with more info.
Alex told her mother when she went home the other day that Jill was mean to her. The mom called Butchie to complain. Jill called Janet and told her she has never and will never be mean to Alex.
 Told her Alex is playing both parents. Alex told Jill and her dad that she doesn't want her mom's new boyfriend Bob for her step father cause he yells at her.
Janet said we are a family now... he can yell at my kid if he needs to and I will yell at his if I need to.
Bob and  Janet are in agreement that they will never touch the other ones kid.
Jill and Janet talked a good half hour.
New problem will arise Sunday. He has to work Monday at 8 a.m. Needs to bring her home early to her mom, which she does not appreciate.  It's suppose to be 8 a.m. to a.m the next day this Sunday.
Give me a break!  Baby mama.....baby daddy... Learning a new lingo at my age. ; 0 )
   Sooooooooooooooooooo ...I ask how they are saving money eating and drinking out every night.
Good question...I hear from her.  His paycheck was a little over $300 with overtime last week.
One day later they are in the Moose and he asks her if she has a few dollars as he only has a buck.
What???? I'm saying to her. 
She said the same to him. What did he spend the $300 on.  Filled gas tank in truck $60. McDonald's for Alex' lunch, pizza for the aunt's house that evening....Jill said to me that maybe that amounts to $100.
Could not account for the rest.  Butchie has an addition to Keno and scratch tickets. Isn't hard for moi to figure out where the money went.
Told her that I would handle his paycheck from now on, if it were moi.  It's probably going to come to that, she said.
Asked her how he paid for food and drinks last night. Doesn't know if he or Chris paid the tab...if him, he probably took it out of the money for the bankrupsty attorney. 
Today is another pay day................................here we go again.
Filing bankrupsty will cost $ 2000.  $500 down.
 He sold the boat he bought for quick resale...then decided to keep it and use it for the summer...then was engaged and needed to wake up & smell the coffee ....woke up to reality and SOLD it..
 Paid $1000 and sold it for over $2000.
So where is that money, I ask.  $1000 is in an envelope for that attorney.
Why not the $2000, I ask.
Paid cable bill so he can have the internet and tv...paid his large cell phone bill as it was shut off the day before yesterday... okay, so now I am assuming the rest went for eating out and booze.
They eat out just about every day....last night Butch is dining on King crab legs, stufffed clams and the like. She had her personal size pizza as usual. Gave away 2 of the slices to the older men that got that hit n run license plate for her. The only seafood Jill likes is............tunafish in a sandwich.
Even then, she spreads it thin or removes most of it if it was made for her.
Let her know we ate a bowl of Wheaties for supper...it's nothing unusual for either of us.
We watch our money so we can pay our bills and he enjoys our tv, internet service and the like.
His money burns a hole in his pocket. On that she agreed.
He did pay to replace that trailer window.....didn't ask the price, nor do I give a shit.
If it cost him the $200 he can't account for........ tough shit!



Hummingbird spotted by hubby minutes ago on the Hummingbird Vine. Enlarge as big as you can. It's to the right of the tree trunk in the yard behind us.
I swear! : 0 )
Oh my gosh....are the trees starting to change color?

Butch is back...shit, showered and changed.  Jill has also showered and dressed.
Bars are opening soon, if not already.
Time to socialize. ...after they cash his check at my bank on my account that Jill is on .
Had her put on our checking account long ago when she was married ,so she could pay the bills that came in while we were in Florida for the winter.
He has no bank account...hers is always empty ( she has an account so DOR can deposit whatever her ex sends in child support. ) Keyword here is ....whenever. I shit you not!
Time to get showered and look like I'm going somewhere.... sigh!
Hubby will want to go to the chiropractor today.
Last night he decided to go in the pool around 6ish to walk around holding on the side to brush the bottom.  It took a number of tries for the both of us to figure out how to get him out.
Good thing he still has some strength in his arms. : 0 ) Saved us a 911 call.

It's 61 in Bismark....77 here at 10:30 a.m.
That's All Folks!


2 comments:

  1. you are doing good, don't deprive yourself to much though :)...good luck ♥

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  2. Oh and those pictures are something else LOL

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