What do you say to a man that sounds like he is drowning,

when he says, "I need you in my life more than you need me?"
I truly care for this man, but I can't fix myself... let alone fix him.
Here it is going on 1 a.m.  He couldn't fall asleep until midnight and who knows when I will!
The way we ended the night, was not good. Oh...he wants me to be his girlfriend, he tells me with almost a cry in his voice that he loves me so muich it hurts, but he claims the passion has gone out of the romance for him. Like WTF!!! I can't help it if he can't keep IT up. Take tonight for instance, he gets a semi and loses it and tells me during our love making that his mind takes him back to where he lived when he was six/seven down at such and such streets, so he loses his semi. Asks me...why do I do this? Like how the F do I know. Is this where I am going to die, he asks me.  Like...I have the answer.
So I get a perfunctuary peck goodnight and as he turns over, he says he wants me in his life and then says "thank you for being my girlfriend."
I'm going to suggest that we just date. Maybe then he will feel passion or what ever the F he thinks he's missing. What I'd really like to suggest is that he find a couple of women on that dating site and date them both if it's excitement he wants.  He has actually intimated that we have become like an old married couple and he feels his age (80).  I've heard..from his mouth."the honeymoon is over."
Well....when you can't get it up ...what does he expect. I try to make him feel like a man and try to let him down easy , saying that I don't care if he can't. That's my manhood, he says. Yeah, I understand. I on the other hand keep getting all worked up ...for nadda!
He asked for and got  filled a  new RX for Viagra.....            ( a whole 4 a month the insurance will pay for) and what the F does he do but use the outdated RX he had when his wife was alive. All it gives him is pounding in his eyes, he feels flush, rapid heart beat and a 4 minute semi erection.
Now, while I don't know if the new RX will do any different, one would think that he would use a new pill as all the old pills have done SHIT!
Sooooooooooooooo....as I was saying, somethings gotta give.
Wish I knew he wouldn't be hurt if I went home, but I know he will and I hate hurting someone who I care about that has been nice and loving to me in many ways.

I just can't fix him...mentally or physically.
To be continued.
(((hugs)))

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