D D Yesterday.....did I say that I bought a car!

I did, but I don't know WHY from that dealership. I shit you not!
More about THAT and the car later.  I still can't wrap my head around what transpired.
Before we even left my driveway....my head was FILLED with SHIT about the shoddy workmanship as told to son Randy by the new guy that would be framing the windows.  The contractor doesn't want to pay him the wages his expertise demands on a daily basis, so he only hires him to frame windows , etc. AS NEEDED and it is then that he sees THE MISTAKES MADE by the cheaper paid help.  
Now......son Randy is demanding to sit down with the contractor and go over everything he has purchased and labor he has paid out, etc., etc. and get refunded and tell him to GET LOST nad let this other guy finish the room and siding.  Of course....that means MORE MONEY.How much???? Two, three grand!
I told Randy THAT's IT! I'll hire my own fuckups and only have myself to be pissed off at from NOW ON.
Just thinking about it, I'm still fuming....for all the good it does.
NO WORK being done today and tomorrow on the house. One of the workers is moving and can't be here. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh   SIX to NINE inches of snow predicted to begin falling this evening. It's 31 degrees as I type at 8:30 a.m.  Could snow now. 
All I keep thinking is I'm never going to see that room finished and siding on the house again.
   EFF ME! Hubby had to shit...ASAP ..I ran and by the time he got out of the bed and turned to sit on the pot..... NOT A PRETTY SIGHT! I shit you not! 
While he sits on the pot awhile....I'll continue to hunt and peck on the keyboard.
GOOD for him that he shit two days in a row.....I could have done without today. sighhhhhhhhhhh
Not everything is stored away or covered for the winter. :0(
   The ride to Danvers was so so ( he didn't half scare me to death ), he got lost...took wrong exits, but finally we found the place. Coming home he took the back roads and I never thought we'd get back.
    I digress...just had the lovely job of cleaning hubby's ass of shit and emptying and sterilizing his pot.  GAG!  I didn't gag...I have cleaned alot of shit in my life, human and animal and I'm able to do it :0) without the gagging even though it's not a pleasant job. Ex#2 use to put a clothespin on his nose to change a diaper. ;0)... git er done!
    Sometime around 4:30 son Randy gets the bright idea that we should head to my insurance company to get the info faxed to the new car agency so they can have plates on it and have it ready for me to drive off their lot some time Monday.  He called the insurance company to confirm their hours. Close at 5. We can make it ma.....then the ride from HELL began. Traffic was a NIGHTMARE and he would shoot off down a side road only to encounter more fender to fender traffic at the next intersection. Like these people were going to stay open to do my paperwork and fax stuff to the car agency if we got there. ........sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. 5:03 we are there. They are in darkness. Need I say more?  grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr He called minutes ago to remind me to call them when they open at 9.  I have two minutes.  If not...we have to go there today, then back to Danvers to fill out the paperwork. FUN,FUN... NOT!
Just got hubby back on his pot. Just called my insurance agency and got an efffin recording.  WTF! Are they open? When will I be getting a call back??? Does anything run smoothly????????????????? 
sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Just let a big one out.
Weather forecasters on tv are warning of heavy wet snow,  wind gusts, poweroutages and all that good stuff.......this is ridiculous.  Where did.... wondering if we would have snow on the ground for Christmas so that our kids could use the sleds they got, GO ?????  One thing for sure....if we have the snow they say we will have, the Trick or Treaters won't be out late. Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ...and we have to keep opening the front door.
   Hubby began to YELL when I told him I bought 4 door.  We don't need that big a car .......WTF!
ONLY after I asked him where the fuck I was going to sit when Jill drove us into Boston and she was in the drivers seat and he was in the front passenger seat and my body isn't getting any younger to slide between the pulled forward front seat to get my happy ass back there DID HE CALM DOWN.  I played that game in my son's car in FL when he didn't have his wife's car and NO THANK YOU! He bought his wifes fathers' car here in MA after he died and GOD BLESS JIM always offering to drive me to bingo on a Sunday , but I did not want my knees and back to ache for hours afterwards, so I would decline his offer. My friend Bell was just shy of ten years older than myself and a few times I would go and let her have the front seat.  I could not bring myself to lie to her so that I could sit up front and tell her I wasn't going to bingo and GO. Sooooooooooooo I stopped going to bingo.
Must admit that after loosing 30 pounds it was much easier to get in the rear of that car  when I was in FL, BUT HELL I'm not getting any younger. I shit you not! 
Besides...the car isn't BIG. It looks and feels narrower to drive than my Taurus.
It's nine twenty...no call back. sighhhhhhhhhhhh Going to buzz them again.  AND AGAIN the same recording. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh  I did leave a nice message saying that if they had their office hours listed, such as Mon thru Fri such and such times and Saturday their hours or CLOSED I would not be sitting here in limbo waiting for a call back and would know if they were Open or Closed. 
One thing good about being older.....I could care less if I get to drive it off the lot Monday or a week from Monday. I'm not "chomping at the bit. " I shit you not!
TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...I don't need it to get to work. :0)

Jill was filling me in on the happenings between her and Butchie.  I will be back to referring to him as WHINE BUCKET...WB for short.   He hasn't learned a thing.  Making demands of her, ordering Cash off her bed the other night and she told him it was her and the dogs bed. He got pissed and left. I thought he left that night for A REASON. I was right. Another thing....he has always shot down the mother of his daughter to her because she takes meds for her craziness as he puts it. When brought to his attention by Jill that wasn't nice ( if Janet was RX'd meds she needed them) ..he insisted he would never do that to her. Wellllllllllllllllllllll guess what. Four drinks in him yesterday and he was putting her down...saying when she got upset with him " go take your Lorazepan for your moodiness" or something like that with the sound of disgust in his voice. 
From me to him....Better watch yourself W.B. 
She actually said to me this morning, I have been just as able to have good conversations with the women at the Moose with just tonic in me as I did when I drank.  My doctor told me later on I could drink a few drinks, but not to get drunk. Right now I don't care to drink, I want to get well and live to see my first grandchild.  Whoaaaaaaaaaaaaa.  Can this be? Has she had her wake up call? Time will tell.
   She told me about her and her son Gil's conversation on the phone last night from MS.  OMG! He was at the judges house/mansion with doctors, lawyers and such. It was suppose to be a Halloween Party ( kids in costume ) and Julie dressed in a slutty policewoman outfit and he was embarrassed.  No adults were dressed in costume . How she and the EX SIL from Hell got the wrong message...who knows. Me personally, I would have gone home and changed. He told his mother he was mortified.  Night before it was a FRAT COSTUME PARTY and she dressed in a slutty nurses costume. He (my grandson ) was buying beers for $1 and putting them back , FOLLOWED BY PUKING IN THE CAR AND DRIVEWAY. A day or so before his dad went to a six hour seminar and handed him $10 and dropped him off at a casino. He played the penny machines and got it up to over $50. Myself....would have eaten with it, not knowing when I was going to get to eat again.
And did you NOTICE? Julie is back in MS ....must be nice to have money to fly to MS and the time off from her new job too.  That must mean...her son Erzi is once again with the nice Mrs. Williams. She will be back in MA on Monday for a few weeks and then Logan, Erzi and she fly to FL and the Ex SIL from Hell and my grandson Gil will meet them there. Thanksgiving break... whatever! 
Alright already...Enough on that subject!

BRAIN FART!  Just looked up my insurance companies hours online. CLOSED ON SATURDAY!
My son probably did the same thing. That's why my phone hasn't been ringing off the wall with calls from him. Ya think.....  Of course he could come and continue putting insullation under the house and wrapping my pipes......but I'll take the LESS STRESS if he stays AWAY! 

Tracie was here when I got back from the Trial Drive to my insurance company. Randy did say...at least we know where it is now, when we found the place CLOSED.
SHIT...he just called. We can still get the paperwork finalized he said. I didn't have my POA with me yesterday and buying it in hubby's name means I don't pay any sales tax which is around $2,500 . Hubby has no use of two or more limbs and his doctor has to fill the form out and once I mail it in, I will get that money rebated to me. :0) No on tells you about this. At least not your insurance company and anyone else in the capacity to do so. After years of hubby not having the use of his legs...a handicapped woman at bingo asked me if I was getting THIS REBATE. At that time we had just purchased a Ford LTD wagon and with her information I just beat the 30 day deadline to get the sales tax I paid refunded. :0)

Where was I....oh yeah Tracie came over before I was home for the evening. We cooked up the pastrami she bought and the three of us had pastrami sandwiches for supper. I was STARVED. Had nothing but coffee once I left here until after 6 when we ate.  She left ...was it before or after 9 p.m. ???  Today's another day. We'll leave that alone.
I need to get a move on and shower and dress.  It is such a gloomy day. A sure sign of things to come. :0(

When I feel up to it, I'll talk about my horrendous encounter at Ira Toyota in Danvers,MA. 

    Eleven eleven...no shower yet. Jill just took off to get the tie rods done on her car....remembered the visiting nurse is making a Special Call today. Last night hubby was complaining LOUDLY about that incision on his chest being VERY PAINFUL. That area looks reddened. What can it be???? 
Tracie has called. Going to the hospital. Woke with her top all bloodied. Blood was leaking out of that  incision that was made to do the breast biopsy.
Hubby's friend Van just came to visit him......  Cash howls like a banshee every so often when he spots someone walking past the house with a dog.   HOME SWEET HOME.

That's All Folks!